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I really worry for Vanessa and her family, now more than ever.
It broke my heart to see how devastated Vanessa was when she relayed what Raven said to Kaiden about Mommy not wanting them anymore. I pray that she knows that none of this is her fault and that the kind of guilt that Raven tried to elicit with that despicable statement is typical controlling behavior. I just can't even imagine how helpless she must feel to love that little boy but realize that she can't control what happens to him. Vanessa, getting yourself & your daughter out of there was absolutely necessary. Had you been able to, I'm sure you would have taken Kaiden too. You've done all that you can for Kaiden by going to the authorities and telling them what you've witnessed. Now we can only hope that someone is working on getting him away from Raven as well.OMG how heartbreaking! Thank God she got out when she did.
I pray something breaks in this case soon....for Kaiden's sake. Not only is Raven continuing to terrorize women, the trama that he is exposing Kaiden to must be stopped.
I would think that after this interview that Child Protective services should be hunting him down. No child should have to witness that kind of abuse and be dragged around by his Father in his quest to collect more women to abuse.
Are you talking about Vanessa or Janet here?Hearing her say that he tried to convince her that she was suicidal or that their crumbled marriage was her fault really did it for me.
Several of us, myself included, are guilty of the same. This is cleary one of those circumstances from which we can learn.I judged Vanessa for what I knew of Raven, not what I knew of Vanessa. I judged harshly and I am so sorry that I compared her to Karen Bolton. I am also sorry that yet another family has been hurt by him.
Unfortunately, it sounds to me as if she's had plenty of first-hand experience to have learned it all on her own.Wow. I knew it, I knew she was being manipulated by him...I stated so even here. I like to hope that maybe possibly that something someone said here may have helped her realize what a despicable person he is.
Terminatrixator, I'm reading your post again and I assume you're talking about Vanessa because you said "hearing her say ..." Is that in the video link that's posted? I watched the video but didn't hear that part, not sure how I missed it. I think that that comment is extremely significant and I'd like to see it in its context.
Terminatrixator, I'm reading your post again and I assume you're talking about Vanessa because you said "hearing her say ..." Is that in the video link that's posted? I watched the video but didn't hear that part, not sure how I missed it. I think that that comment is extremely significant and I'd like to see it in its context.
This is EXACTLY what I was thinking. And when I think back to Raven telling Janet's parents, after 5 hours of questioning at the police station, that Janet had committed suicide even though he obviously knew that she hadn't, it sent shivers down my spine. Vanessa may truly have gotten out just in the nick of time.IMO he was setting her up for a suicide and she's so lucky that she got away.
I have two thoughts on this. The first is about the act of "googling". Up until Janet's case, it probably would never have occured to me to Google anyone. I don't know how much has changed in the general population over the past four years regarding this type of thing but perhaps people here are more likely to Google because of what we know about Internet resources due to our participation on Web sites such as this one. I'm not surprised that she didn't Google Raven sooner because I don't think that it occurs to certain people.I am somewhat surprised, however, that Vanessa didn't google Raven until the time of her bridal shower?!? In this age of immediately accessible information, I wouldn't seriously date anyone without, at a minimum, googling them (did you ever think 10 years ago we'd use the term "googling"?) Perhaps if she had done a search way before they got engaged, she could have more easily backed away from a caustic situation.