Roselvr
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I agree - I can really see both scenarios happen. It's very possible that Tracie's boyfriend (given his history of violence) hurt her but I also think it's possible she left of her own accord and then didn't make contact for some reason. Maybe she met with foul play, but also, maybe she really was ashamed of what was going on and felt that her kids' lives would be more stable without her (or she planned on getting them back when she got back on her feet).
The Anchorage pattern is really creepy but I honestly hope she made her way elsewhere. It seems like she has an alias so if anyone has a subscription to those services that let you search people, that could be useful. I've found several people who have the right age range but it doesn't sound like Lisa Hill is a very unusual, showy name so it can be anyone else. I've only used pipl but on the social networks bit I found about three profiles who look a bit like what she could look like nowadays, but it's hard to be sure because of the angle of the photos. Roselvr, I can PM them to you if you'd like.
Finally, are you completely sure she's 100% Portuguese? Her name doesn't sound like it. I'm not talking about the first and middle names as from what I understand, it's really common in immigrants from everywhere to give their kids names from their new country. Her last name, however, doesn't sound like it. Maybe it's a case of the Vincent family having chosen a more Americanized spelling or a spelling mistake in old records that caught on (like how many European immigrants in the early 20th century had their names changed a bit so they'd sound more English or even because in their paperwork it had ended up misspelled by someone who didn't know their language).
Her daughter said Tracie is 100% Portuguese. She was an honor student that was expected to marry a Portuguese guy until she got pregnant & I assume brought shame to the family.
I don't doubt the name was shortened at some point. My daughters paternal side came over from Poland; some changed the name so much it doesn't resemble her last name with yszyn. The most logical thing to do would have been to change the spelling to what the name actually sounds like; but they didn't do that either.
My parents came over in the late 50's from Hungary; 1 kid has a Hungarian 1st name while myself & another have American names.
I saw her sister on FB this morning; I'm going to try to contact her. Since she & I aren't FB friends; my messages are going in her other folder which she probably has no clue that it's there.
I contacted Tracie's NamUs rep yesterday; to give her the daughter's info to submit a DNA sample. Hopefully I hear back from them today.