I believe that is both of the above, and, that George and Cindy don't want to face/talk to her either.
I don't care who would tell me that I could not see my child; under these circumstances or other, I would be there.
Every day that there was visitation, I would show up.
She would KNOW that I had been there, either by the authorites in charge letting her know, or demanding that they go to her cell and request the visit.
I would call each day and make an appointment, follow the set rules for visitation, and go.
She would at least know that I had gone, and, so would the public.
And, yes, it would be difficult to not ask any questions about the ongoing case, but, if nothing else, I would tell her that I still love you, we miss you, and hope that you are okay under the circumstances ~ then, slowly get up and leave, leaving her sitting there with her mouth hanging open, and the little fisties flyin'.
Then, do it all over again the next day, and the next, and the next until she finally talked, or, stopped coming for the visit ~
But, one way or another she would know that I was there and had tried.