TrueBlue2017, whoever you are, would it not be good idea for you to post a list of things you are not willing to discuss and things you are? So for instance, not willing to discuss connection to family, are willing to discuss general questions about BRE as to his interests, hobbies, his work, that type of thing so everyone knows the "no go" zones, which sound pretty much anything that would incriminate BRE in anyway or be perceived as negative to his case? Just trying to help as I can see this to and fro is getting nowhere and only upsetting you and frustrating others.