I know this may sound very controversial to some, and I almost cringe saying it, but ..... I think it might also be nice for the families of Boscaino and Dyball to give anonymous donations to the account. All of these families are grieving, in one way or another - but as parents, I would hope that the alleged perpetrators' families can understand how much massively harder this is for Sam's family, how their sons likely caused this huge funeral expense, how they could help a little at this time.
They are apparently all good families, and unfortunately they are all in this together. With one family significantly harder hit than the other two - in that they have permanently lost their son, never to see him again. And I can't see it harming Boscaino and Dyball's defence in any way.
A bit too left-field for some people? :dunno:
I just think it would be nice, and would like to think that I would do that if I was in their shoes.
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