Ok, this is my first time posting so bear with me if I do anything wrong, I want to follow all the rules, etc.
Two theories:
1. What if she accidentally used a correct date of birth at some point? Specifically, i was wondering about the 1/13/1970 from the Personality Forge website. If she was filling out a form quickly, she might've slipped. So I did some googling using some key words w/the birthday and this came up when I did hazel eyes, the birthday and missing people:
http://www.cousinconnect.com/d/a/160898
(removed last names, go to site to see them) "I am searching for my birthmother and my half sister. My Bitrth mothers name is Teresa ***** and she has Aburn hair color and hazel eyes. Her birthday is January 13 1970. My half sister was kept by my birth mother i dont know her name or last name, i am quessing her last name is *****.I do know her Birthday which is 9-1-87, she has blonde hair and blue eyes.
Timeline seems good, and per the site it looks like the one searching is in San Joaquin, CA. Leaving children behind would be pretty psychologically devastating for anyone and there are plenty of CA connections.
2. So the Oriental Hotel in Bangkok is a very nice hotel (I've been there for drinks). And that's clearly just the hotel-issued stationery the reference letter is on. No one in this story necessarily seemed like the sort who would've gone there, so maybe the letter isn't real, but she knew someone who would've gone to such a place and brought back a tablet. Maybe someone military?