OceanMetTheSky
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Yes he was in Lafayette
This breaks my heart for BSL. He's done evil things granted but the pain he must have felt from this was pretty awful.
Our child is adopted. At one point this child went through a pretty difficult time and was sent to a private school for teens with problems. My husband and I went there for family weekend. Turned out that 85% of the kids going through the school had been adopted. It was explained to us that it was not because of anything we did or because there was something wrong with our children. No matter how much love these children are shown, they still feel abandoned by their birth parents, especially their birth mothers. There was some thought at one point that our child may have borderline personality disorder. As I posted somewhere back, I'm an insatiable reader and when presented with a problem, I'm like the dog with the bone- I'll dig until I find the answers. As I researched, I found Dr. Blaise A. Aguirre, a psychiatrist who deals exclusively with adolescents and BPD. Again a fairly large percentage of adopted children present with BPD not because of the adoption but because of the abandonment issue. Teenagers as we know go through a roller coaster of emotions-sometimes on an hourly basis. It's all about finding out who we are and what our place is in the world. It makes me sad for BSL that on top of all the adolescent confusion, he felt abandoned by his birth mother already and then she rejected him. Sounds to me like she might have issues. Did she blame him for her breakup with the married lover?
For us, the story turned out happily. Our child does not have BPD, has finished high school, and is ready to begin college. It was a long road that love, support, and God got us through.
Again, I am not excusing anything BSL did. There is so much help out there for people who want it. It's a choice as are most things in life.
Wow, Crimson clover -- I had never heard of that; thanks for the info.
Sure sounds like a unique event.
I will say something about guns that might be against what some of us here believe. I have never owned a gun, nor do I plan to. It seems like people are exercising their rights to own a firearm, and some of the firearms are of ridiculous proportions. Does it make one feel safer? Knowing that you always have to sleep with one eye open with a finger on the trigger if someone breaks into your house? Because most of the times, it's the criminals with the guns. The fact that everyone in Switzerland must own a firearm is something I didn't know and they are my neighbors to the south and I work with many Swiss people. Had no idea. But at any rate. I think it's more of a societal problem that a 'yeah, I'm a proud American and want to exercise my second amendment rights blah blah blah' (even though when it comes to a gun battle with a bad guy, tough guy will likely lose). Why not fix the problem about WHY we feel obligated to carry a firearm than to fight for the right to defend ourselves against those that shouldn't even have them? Maybe no one will agree with me and that's okay but even Websleuths is a direct result of societal problems. (But, yes I love you all and glad to be here!)
Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
Thank-you for shedding so much light on this case, Garry.
I wondered if BSL's bio sister might better remember April 26, 2010 and whether BSL was around, since the BP Deepwater Horizon Oil Spill Explosion and Disaster happened on April 20, 2010?
That might give her a reference point. I wondered if BSL might have been around, since he would likely have been off work after that oil spill?
I can't help thinking, in view of all we now know of BSL's past, that his house fire last year (around July 2011), is very suspicious. Can anyone please find more details about this? I feel it is very important.
I wish I could find out more about it, and wonder if this was a case of arson, for the purpose of covering up yet another murder. Pure speculation of course. JMO :twocents:
I'm with you on this one. The little pu@&y thought he would have his way with her. Little did he know he was messing with a lioness. It took all he had to save his own butt; trying desperately to fend off a sharp knife. Putting his hand up like the woos he is,:rocker: trying to save himself; getting his finger almost cut off. He had to pull his gun to get her off of him. Go Mickey! If only she could have "Lorena'd this dude. For sure he'd never sexually assault another.Yes....I do not believe for one second he "let" her stab him again after the first altercation. IMO he shot her after she stabbed him the 1st time... there was no 2nd time she got the knife.
He had the gun for a reason... who leaves a knife laying around to lets someone stab ya on two different occsasions??
He never "thought" she was dead he dad gum KNEW it! The exact moment.
No need to check a pulse.
jmo
REALLY!!! he gave TMI...
She attacked him...WHERE IS THE STRIKETHROUGH???(no he attacked her... she opened up a can o whoop a$$)
then he killed her and ran home...
moo
This turned out to be a pretty good tip and seems to have jarred some memories from both BN and her Husband. They are interested in talking to Mac Sanford about Ali.
Great tip sleuthers
wow. i never knew they did stuff like this! i love going to rodeos, but i always feel bad when there is a cowboy that gets hurt. wouldn't have that problem with this!! LOL.
ok finished the whole video and i've decided i have to go see this one day. i've fallen in love with LA with as much as i've learned about it the past 3 months and i need to visit!
Be sure to take a swamp tour. There's an awesome one near Gonzales off I-10. The woman walks around with those alligators as if they are bunnies. All the while they are hissing. The boat ride provides beer and an absolute breathtaking scenery and much more. It's beautiful and amazing.
Try Cajun food only in Cajun country, Acadiana that is, not NOLA. But do eat everything else in NOLA!!! Oh and take the trolley down St. Charles. Afterwards check out Magazine Street and eat at the Creole Creamery off Pyrtania.
OT... I have followed lots of cases here, and for the first timers... This case is truly rare... finding the perp, locating the victim, seeing justice prevail, finding out how it all unfolded, learning inside scoop from the insiders, etc... Most cases have so many more questions than answers. This is an extremely fascinating, touching, unusual case... Haven't seen one like it before and probably won't ever again... I'm so glad I chose to follow it, and I think you all are a really cool, determined, selfless, somewhat crazy :smile:, bunch...
All jmo.
GarryB I would also like to know more about his relationships in Austin. I asked earlier, but I can't find my question, either I didn't post it right, or it was removed. IDK. I am curious how he would meet anyone from Austin. Was he in that relationship back in 2010? Is that person still around?
OR, in the short time while he went around the truck, she was able to get to her backpack, and had her own blade.
Yes, she was injured, but maybe she stayed calm enough and played possum and had enough strength- in a life or death situation - to do this.
It's finally forming in my head - the jumping up part - that I think it went down when he got out of the truck in the cane field. She was alone in the truck for that short time.
My opinion only.