Lilibet
Southern Oregon
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I think you're fine. We're here trying to figure this out and sometimes the things that stand out to us need to be explored. I appreciate hearing about them. Makes me think.
I can understand what you meant. I will admit that I have to really work hard at not being cynical. I am giving him the benefit of the doubt in the end. Were the "hard eyes" (as I momentarily thought I saw) because of deception or because of his intense emotion of even having to answer such a question? It gets hard sometimes when we've seen some situations where the partner/spouse is guilty in the end.
Thanks. It’s a fine line to walk. I’ve always figured I’d rather wrongly think someone is innocent than wrongly think they’re guilty and I’ll try to stay on that side of the line and assume the best.