gitana1
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Do it, move to Arizona. It was the best year of my life! Dust storms. Monsoon rain. It was BLISS! You get used to the heat. I find the dry heat so much easier to tolerate than humid heat. You get pest control for the scorpions. You always have air conditioning. I miss Arizona so much, my anxiety was non existent there... it was AMAZING.
I have lived in earthquake country my whole life too. However, we aren't built as well as California is. So our buildings aren't going to stay standing in a 7.0. I'd actually be fairly comfortable if I lived in a newer house in California!
Earthquakes scare me more because of the total lack of warning. If anything you might get seconds. SECONDS! That isn't even long enough to process the warning.
I wouldn't love a tornado but at least I'd have time to get my people and critters under cover. With a hurricane at least I'd have the option to evacuate (and YES I would take that option!)
I just never manage to feel prepared enough. So of course, now I'm working on that at 2am. I go over every single possibility from likely to completely outrageous.
What if we are outside with the pets and the kids are inside?
What if I'm gone with one kid and everyone else is home?
What if we are all gone and the pets are home?
What if I put supplies in the pantry (because it's cinder block and the strongest room in the house) and even it doesn't hold up and then I can't get to them?
What if I get killed and the kids are left to fend for themselves?
What if we are gone when it hits and I can't get to the supplies in the house?
The smaller things like what if something falls off the wall and kills my kid, I've solved by not having heavy things on the walls.
Or what if the loft bed collapses on the child sleeping below it and kills them. Nobody sleeps below the loft bed.
Nobody sleeps below ceiling fans, windows or picture frames.
Our walls are decorated with lightweight canvas prints and poster prints.
I get gas when I hit 3/4 of a tank. I always have enough food for a week, a case of water and a pack of diapers in the car. I'm going to just put an entire kit in the car because I always worry about clothes and meds not being there.
I could go on and on and on for pages. I just completely panic when these happen. My normal coping is to find an answer for each possibility. But I can't do that in this situation with the big things! So, I panic... especially since our "safe haven" we were to retreat to in the event of a big quake has been taken away now.
It's just too much to handle it all at once. I'd like an adult who's better at adulting to take over for me.
Earthquakes don't bother me much. I feel nervous when they happen. Scared if they're big.
But as long as I'm not on an elevated freeway, under a bridge, in an old highrise or in an elevator, I'm not terrified.
Tornadoes can come out of nowhere. Often in the darkness. You may get a warning but you never know where it's going to turn or where it's really going to hit.
More important, states that have big tornadoes and hurricanes have an actual season of them.
We don't.
The level of storm damage in states with tornadoes and hurricanes each year and the numbers of deaths vastly outweigh death and damage in CA from earthquakes. Vastly. No comparison.
However, fires. That's what scares the hell out of me when it comes to natural disaster in our state. And that we do have a season for!!
What are the odds of dying in an earthquake?