Countem
Verified Certified Fraud Examiner and Accountant
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- Dec 31, 2019
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RSBM
All family dynamics are different, and there are many circumstances that lead to family members not hearing from each other for days or weeks, especially when people move away and start their own families. Physical distance can play a part, too. For instance, the father’s family lives primarily in Europe. We cannot fault the family for not notifying law enforcement sooner, especially if periods of silence were normal. MOO.
RSBM
While it is the logical option to abandon a pet in distress to ensure one’s own (or one’s child’s) safety, many people, myself included, view their pet as close to them as a child and would do whatever possible to save their pet, especially if still alive and suffering, even if it meant accepting more risk to their own well-being. Oski had been the wife’s pet for years; I think that she would have accepted that risk. MOO.
Additionally puzzling is how no family members appeared to be worried about them when they were out of contact for almost 48 hours. If my family member was off grid unexpectedly for more than a few hours I would be in complete panic and search mode. The fact that no one in their family seemed concerned with them missing until 11pm Monday seems strange. This aspect hasn’t really been fleshed out by LE.
All family dynamics are different, and there are many circumstances that lead to family members not hearing from each other for days or weeks, especially when people move away and start their own families. Physical distance can play a part, too. For instance, the father’s family lives primarily in Europe. We cannot fault the family for not notifying law enforcement sooner, especially if periods of silence were normal. MOO.
RSBM
I find it hard to believe that anyone would jeopardize the health and safety of their infant for a pet. However if they were already overheated when the dog got sick I can see where illogical choices could be made.
While it is the logical option to abandon a pet in distress to ensure one’s own (or one’s child’s) safety, many people, myself included, view their pet as close to them as a child and would do whatever possible to save their pet, especially if still alive and suffering, even if it meant accepting more risk to their own well-being. Oski had been the wife’s pet for years; I think that she would have accepted that risk. MOO.