An Edmonton man says his daughter was fun-loving and kind but started to change as the 13-year-old got caught up in psychological games with an older man online.
calgaryherald.com
“The father said his family has child controls on all their electronics and had talked about internet safety. They also monitored the girl’s tablet.
His daughter’s personality started shifting about one year ago, he said, and she became even more isolated just before she disappeared. In recent weeks, he had spoken with her about how different her online persona was compared to how she acted in person.
He thought maybe it was teen angst. Maybe his daughter was trying to figure herself out and this was just a phase.
Little did he know, the father said, that a stranger in another country was part of the problem……
……The father said he isn’t sure how his daughter’s communication began with the suspect. But they had conversations on multiple popular social media platforms.
The man gained a bit of trust with his daughter, the father said. “Then his hooks are in.”
The father alleges the man broke down his daughter’s spirit and self-worth, then used manipulation to isolate her from friends and family and her social network.
When his daughter’s self-esteem was crushed, the man welcomed her into his world, the father said. The man told her he loved her and accepted her…..
……Everything is stressful, he said. Going to see a doctor means rehashing all the awful things that happened to her. There are also interviews with police and future court dates.
“It’s a long road ahead,” the father said. “I really don’t know exactly what’s going to happen.”
Experts say the cross-border kidnapping case is rare, but there has been an alarming increase in reports of children being lured online.
The Canadian Centre for Child Protection, which runs the national tip line for reporting online child sexual abuse, said there has been a 120 per cent increase in reports of online child luring over the last six months.
“What I’ve realized is there is no regulation, no control of the internet whatsoever,” the father said.
Experts say one in three internet users in the world is a child — one in five in Canada. Many countries are pressuring social media companies to ensure platforms are safe for young people…..”