If your daughter has a balanced parent(s), which I assume you are, she will have no problem. But if you have a controlling, mentally ill parent, who has never gotten help, the child will rebel, and seek LOVE in any way possible. I bet you that Lee was the son that could do no wrong. Casey was the bad seed and it was drilled into her daily. Everybody has roles in a dysfunctional family. Not apologizing for Casey, she should pay, but I do put MAJOR blame on Cindy for everything that has happened to Casey. I would like to know more about Cindy's parents, and the relationship with her mother, which would explain a lot.