impatientredhead
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Lanie a beautiful post written with great insight. Thank you for this. I imagine every time Tim goes out on a search he feels in a sense he is searching for his daughter all over again, there must be a tremendous push for him to keep going. I find what he is doing highly comendable and feel bad he has to deal with the A who have shown him little support or even respect.
Ditto, and while I think TM should stay off of NG and away from the entire Anthony debacle as it is not helping his organization, that does so much good.... I think his comment about her being unfindable was inappropriate for the audience, I do think it is understandable.
Tim has been on over 800 of these searches. He has gone through it as the victims family. He is a vet in these areas. If you hear police officers talk amongst themselves about a case they can come across as jaded etc. If you hear medical professionals talk amongst themselves they can come across as cold at time. They have to adjust their jadeness/desensitization/brutal honesty for public audiences.
Tim did not do that in this situation and he should have. But as a vet/professsional whatever word you want to use there he has seen 800+ cases, he knows what type of cases get solved, he knows what kind of family commitment it takes to keep the searches going, he knows what kind of perps get caught. From his experiences this case will end with her not being found. Maybe they have good reason to believe she is in the landfill where she won't be found. But the combo of factors here, the time lapsed, the family not helping keep the searches going, Casey never talking, she probably won't be found.
Should he have phrased it better, of course. Should he stay away from this case yes. If you don't like the organization and don't want to donate or support it, completely understandable and your right to do so. But I think he has earned the benefit of the doubt to at least not bash his organization and harm it for future searches. There are a lot of people reading here and these statements will be here forever for people searching out TES for the first time.
JMO