They weren't even commited at this point and had only seen each other 3-4 times. LIving in different states. She was already shamelessly flirting with married men. We saw that sort of thing all the time. Always to try to make TA jealous. At this point we were annoyed by her. Couldn't figure it out. Immature.
She starts showing up at our house uninvited. Even when TA wasn't there. One time she came over (2007) and she was crying and sad and saying that TA wouldn't commit and that he was dating other girls and that she got into his email/facebook and she had forwarded all of their messages to herself.
Skye told him to dump him. TA was a flirt. We all thought that was what he was; he's enjoying himself.
According to TA, he was a dork when he was younger. He was big. He would eat alone in the cafeteria and was teased. He was so sad, living in poverty, parents were drug addicted. And then, he got into personal development and worked on his self confidence. Got into a business where he didn't feel broken. He was good at it. Gained confidence. Bought a car and suits and shirts. Took great pride in how he looked. Began to be appealing to both men and women. Good looking and well dressed and endearing to people. From where he was to now, he had girls persuing him and he was enjoying himself.
They told him he was in the prime of his life and if he's not committing to you, leave him.
Skye asks JA before you talk to TA, let me call him to tell him we've had this discussion so that I can tell him that we've had this conversation. She says yes no problem. She ends up staying the night. They go to bed. An hour or two later, Skye gets up to feed the baby and JA is in the garage talking to him on the phone telling him everything.
She lied to the Hughes and she lied and embellishes to TA.
Started the "infamous" email chain.
GOT TO TAKE A BREAK. Will be right back peeps!