MsBetsy
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Wouldn't shared custody be very hard on a young child? The two families live so far apart, I don't see what arrangement they could make that would be in the best interest of the child.Idk any info that F or Bs might have to “tarnish” reputations, of each other, either. I guess there’s always “things” a person can dig up, if inclined.
Since the child is far from school age,maybe 50/50 custody? Just a guess. I would not like 50/50 but it’s not my call.
Personally, I don’t think the baby would be in danger with grandma F, she has never caused her harm, to my knowledge. It sounds like she has had opportunity, as much as she baby-sat, if factual.
I think the Bs will heal much faster if they can raise the child.
I don’t feel either party has a financial motive for custody, I think all love baby K.
MOO
I do know parents who have lived a couple hours away from each other, who had shared custody. The child spent alternate weeks with each parent until she began school. But this would be impossible if they are far apart. Imo