All this debate about whether they were or were not a couple. IMO, a lot points to them NOT being a couple. Not spending Thanksgiving together, not knowing who is shopping for the Christmas tree, absence of social media photos together, blah blah blah. And then add to all of this, the aunts former post which states they DID break up. I can't see any justification for her to make that up. But I do see a justification for Kelseys mother to be less than truthful in her claim that they were a happy couple. She might worry about what people think, and she must worry about her grandchild.
NOW I HAVE TO CONTRADICT WHAT I WROTE ABOVE,
If the text sent from the Kelsey's phone to the boyfriend stated, "Im sorry, Im no longer interested in being involved, I am headed to blah, blah, blah,...I need some time to myself...." Well that could be the source of some family members stating they had gone different directions. I was wrong to think it was Kelsey who made that claim to her family! Actually this new scenario makes more sense to me.
The way I see it, if Kelsey moved into PF's house, living there would have meant, also contributing into working at that farm. And she wanted to further her career, her dream job. Good for her! (So if they were in a big city, PF would have been the person taking a "paternity leave"). But she was also the mother, so she moved in as close to his farm as possible, making long commutes to Pueblo. A lot fell on her during that year.
Does it fit with the posts I come across accidentally, in other places, that taking off was typical for her? Not at all. Does it bode well with that tweet stating that she had issues with substances? No, because, sorry, she was pregnant, no drinking, then, possibly, breastfeeding (not sure - interested to know), and then was commuting and working. And she was employed.
Taking time off work for long times,as that author says, does not fit in, either way.
So I would like to know who, and why, wrote that tweet, showing PF as a guy who has been through a lot and the stable one, and her, as the person with issues. I don't see her a person with issues, I see her as a chronically tired young woman, trying to be a good mom, and commuting to work, and advancing her career, and staying close to PF's farm, for the sake of raising her child with both parents.
Many women these days are working and raising small kids. It is easier in bigger cities and also is viewed there as the norm. Not sure about the farms. I think Kelsey was really trying her hardest to grow professionally, and be a mom, and it was very hard, but I trust her mom when she says taking off spontaneously was not typical for her.
Either something very bad happened, and she planned to take off, or someone cut it all short.