I know this thread is old but here it goes
I am the father of the youngest 3 children and your all partly correct about whoring around, she wanted to date other men I found out about this and confronted her about it she denied everything the next morning i woke up to a knife pointing at me and she told me to leave which i did , i did not want my children to witness this kind of behavior. When I returned the police were there and i was arrested for a domestic violence related charge which she obviously lied about to get me out of the house which gave her more freedom to see other men.. i found out what had happened watching the news in jail Then got more information later that she was working as a security officer at oracle and she started dating another security officer that also worked at the same place .. his place was closer to work so she would not go home for days she would spend her time off work with him at his place also her job required her to work shifts close to 10 hours a day , she has since been released from prison after serving 10 years i lost the battle trying to get custody of my 3 children in 2008 have not seen my children since, my oldest was 5 years old last time I saw her, she will be 17 years old this month.