First off, let me address your idea about the release of the autopsy.
They had no intent of releasing the autopsy report around this time.
I asked for the records on this case before Christmas, 2017.
I was denied (which I expected).
http://www.theflume.com/free_content/article_67ca3b5a-e73a-11e7-9d40-2f9528003cb6.html
I personally spoke to David Kintz Jr.
He said the autopsy would not be released until the CBI was done with their investigation.
In reference to why the parents would not attend the memorial service, you need to educate yourself to Oriental customs in regards to deaths in a family and funerals.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_funeral_rituals
In reference to the families finances, I covered this in a very long article in my newspaper.
http://www.theflume.com/free_content/article_150a3152-f722-11e7-8bfa-f7e76994a7f1.html
You can accept the testimony of the manager, who is very close to the family, or you can go with your own theories.
You say, "... first a gag order, and now a full on plea to stall the release of actual cause of death. crazy indeed, this story. "
If you read my article about releasing records, there was never any intent to release information this early on in the investigation.
Next to the law enforcement authorities, there is no one that know more about this case than I do. I know some of the details of the autopsy, I am not at liberty at this point to release the info.
I have details that I won't release at this point, I am not the sort of journalist/editor who just runs with every lede, I require proven sources before I publish something.
Early this morning, I had a conversation with someone high up in the Park County Sheriff's Office, face to face in my office at the newspaper, and after the conversation, I can tell you they are no any closer to solving this than you are.
I actually gave this person some leads that may help in the investigation, but once again, I can't reveal what I know.
I'm a journalist, not a detective, it's not my job to solve this, but it is my job to make sure that I can let the public know what facts are swimming around this case.
I've done this, for the last seven weeks.
And in two weeks, I will be on vacation to Europe and the Middle East for almost a month. As much as this story is mine, I hope I can come back to the U.S. and find that this has been solved. I can only hope.