cshea99
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After reading how swiftly and viciously the tide turned on the thread after the videos were posted, I was honestly dreading watching them. I got the implication from the posts that SW would appear like a controlling monster who was cruel to her children and husband and gleefully humiliated them, etc. etc.
Wow.
In the checkers video I saw normal ribbing. My husband and I joke around a lot and are ultra-competitive in silly games like this. CW was laughing and joking around about it. He could have left. There's actually a second checkers video posted on FB too. He didn't have to agree to go live and play a 2nd game, either, if he was upset like people claim, with seething anger and whatever all.
The squirting water video? Bella was laughing the whole time and kept coming back to open her mouth, lift her shirt, etc. She wasn't crying, wasn't saying stop it, wasn't trying to get in frantically. She was spraying the window too. Even the "daddy save me" was with giggles. I guess I must be cruel and evil too because I saw normal horseplay.
The pie face... again, my husband would want to be the one in the pie in the face spot and in front of the camera when I wouldn't. Just to be silly. Do we know "poor" CW didn't want to be there? Did SW force him into a place of humiliation and degradation by playing a game and letting his toddlers smash whip cream in his face? For heaven's sake. The only thing that I disagreed with was that it went on too long at the end when Bella didn't want to get messy then was crying & didn't want to say goodbye. They're kids. She was probably over it as soon as she ran away to play with something else.
We know that social media and marketing a lifestyle is a big part of any MLM. We know SW was a Thriver who took a lot of videos and was always "on".
I cannot for the life of me see what everyone seems to be seeing about how terrible and controlling she was and how bad she was to her children and how poor Chris was dominated to where he eventually had to take out his big bad controlling wife while watching her murder his children. What?!
He's a grown man who had 2 kids, 1 on the way and was perfectly capable of saying no. This has shades of the traditional BS in-laws mentality of "the evil wife and my poor baby boy".
I'm gonna need a cleansing and a step back after this one because some of the posts feel very close to victim blaming and shaming.
BBM. I don't think anyone is victim blaming. No one blames SW. We are just trying to get an idea of the family dynamics. Do I think SW was a saint? No. No one is. Do I think CW is a monster? Of course. I also don't like their relationship dynamics. Everyone keeps saying this is how their marriage is....well, the difference is CW killed SW. So their marriage is NOT just like everyone elses marriage.