It seemed to me that CW presented himself to NK as a husband on his way out the door of his marriage, same story all cheaters tell. NK believed him. Then NK fell head over heels, but little by little realized CW wasn’t as footloose and fancy free as he initially said he was, he was very much in a committed relationship with his wife and family, same story for all cheaters. By this time NK wanted him all to herself, still believing him that SW was a horrible woman, it was all her fault, and she hated SW for making him so miserable, same story for all cheaters. Near the end NK was getting to the point where she was telling him to make a choice, either work on your marriage, or get yourself free. Same story for all cheaters. Some get themselves free, some don’t. The drama goes on and on, I’ve heard it a thousand times, but most cheaters don’t kill their families. I do think NK was a victim because CW lied to her over and over again. He was the one who broke his marriage vows, he was the one who killed his family. NK fell in love with him. Haven’t you ever had a friend who fell in love with a committed man? Same story, every time. But women continue to do it every day. They all think it’s going to work out differently for them.