It is baffling, indeed. Never seen anything like it, to be honest. I suppose if you go by all the hearsay, people are scared of Barry. It's easy for me to say I would not give 2 carps about what he thought of me speaking out about my friend, but I have to wonder if most of her friends are still struggling with trying to comprehend if he's a murderer or not, and that's too frightening to ponder. And not only a murderer, but one that has obviously hidden her so well, she's not been found in almost a year. That is quite a terrifying thought that someone you know, or one of your friend's husband, could be so diabolical. I would also assume since they were married for so long, and came from the same small town in Indiana, most of her friends are his friends, too. But who knows. It's all so bizarre.