What a nice thought. TY for that.Everyday I'm making flower arrangements, and it makes me happy. May I offer you some of my virtual flowers that I arranged to brighten your day?
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“There is a big difference between 0.25% mortality and 7%,” Yealy said.
Yealy further said the majority of the deaths among UPMC patients involved people over 80, with many being nursing home residents.
You are not alone in your feelings. I am 75 years old too. I don't mind isolating and social-distancing, but I am terrified of this virus and how it is affecting what could be my final years. I alternate between anxiety and depression, worrying about money, health and peace of mind.in all of my 75 years, until now, i have never felt such an imminent existential
threat to my life--i am at once terrified, then depressed-- i think of all those who
have died agonizing deaths,, not allowed to be comforted in their last moments.
I almost see this virus as a living entity, murderous, ruthless, whose only
function is to kill as many people as possible in a myriad of horrific ways.
we are helpless against its wrath-- all of our technology is useless---it might
as well be 1918-- well we do have Zoom and social media!!!! those of us
who do the right thing like social distancing are also in a sense potential
victims of selfish morons who will be responsible for deaths of many. This
is a horror the likes of which i could have never imagined in my life time
Do you have a Last Will & Testament? Advance Health Care Directive, Statutory Power of Attorney?I hear you!
Is there an "In the event of my death, xxxx xxxx will privately contact ****** ******?"
Do we just give our information to someone who we trust to contact someone?
I have seen the passing of some members and I was so shocked, saddened and wondered how I missed that the person who I enjoyed thier posts was suddenly gone. FIREFOX- for example! Had I know his real name, I'd have known, but it was months before I found out. *(he was a first responder when my friend in high school was killed. Her name was Laurie Landt)
Is there a thread to advise on how to notify members of our passing?
Sorry if off topic.
Moo
NYC man stole over $12,000 in stimulus checks from mailboxes, prosecutors say
New York Virus News....moo
I think we are a society that respects and honours our elderly. Even though this nursing home and dormitory scenario is now well known as a risk it is still happening. Same mistakes being repeated is what I think is unforgivable.These quotes are intended by researchers to be positive...
Their big difference in percentages of mortality is no difference at all to those who have died a horrible death and to their loved ones who didn’t get to hold their hands and comfort them. Dead is dead.
Well, that’s a relief! The majority were over 80 and I’m not. Oh, and they were in nursing homes and I’m not. So it’s less of a concern? To whom? To researchers and statisticians maybe, and to those not in those categories, but not to the people living (and dying) at that age in a nursing home and to their loved ones. How old y0u were and where you lived when you died is still dead.
Do researchers ever listen to themselves and wonder why people feel devalued? No, I didn’t think so. As a society do we listen to ourselves using these same statistics to justify “opening up” our favorite places? Yes, at some point we do need to “open up” but do we realize how devaluing it sounds about our elderly? Can we stop for a moment in our rush to restaurants, beauty salons and beaches to reflect on the lives that will still be lost because of our mad dash back to “normal.” Can we please see them as people who contributed to society and who have families and friends? Being dead doesn’t negate the life that was lived.
We are n0t a society that generally respects and honors its elderly, and the conversation around coronavirus has brought this failing into sharp focus. It’s an uncomfortable truth and so we look away and focus on “reopening.” But can we spare a moment to think about the words of former Vice President Hubert Humphrey (often erroneously attributed to Ghandi)...
“The moral test of government is how that government treats those who are in the dawn of life, the children; those who are in the twilight of life, the elderly; those who are in the shadows of life, the sick, the needy and the handicapped.”
Former President Jimmy Carter put it this way...“The measure of a society is found in how they treat their weakest and most helpless citizens.
I would add that how we think about and value these ones is the measure of us as individuals. So let’s resist thinking and talking in purely statistical or demographic terms as we move forward, and let us show that these lives lost and yet to be lost are truly valued.
JMO
Singapore is the cleanest place I have ever visited. Never even saw a fly the several times I was there. Very, very strict litter laws.Singapore's health ministry on Saturday confirmed 447 new coronavirus infections, the smallest daily rise in two weeks, taking the city-state's tally of cases to 17,548 with 16 virus-related deaths.
Most of the new cases are among migrant workers living in dormitories, the ministry said.
Singapore confirms 447 new coronavirus cases, smallest rise in two weeks
What country/state are you? It's difficult to comment without knowing what stage your area is at.It’s crazy what I’ve been reading on the neighborhood page, majority think “it’s over”! The ban is lifted! The curve is flattened!
They talk about resuming their daily life “like before”. No masks. No social distancing.
Seniors told to stay in until June and I’m hearing “only 5 more weeks to go”!
Do they not understand we haven’t eradicated this virus? And seniors still can’t go out or be around others after that magic date?
Or am I misinformed?
GAWhat country/state are you? It's difficult to comment without knowing what stage your area is at.
No. You are no misinformed. The "peak" and "over" are not the same, and when it's realized things opened too soon, we will be reminded.It’s enlightening what I’ve been reading on the neighborhood page, majority think “it’s over”! The ban is lifted! The curve is flattened!
They talk about resuming their daily life “like before”. No masks. No social distancing.
Seniors told to stay in until June and I’m hearing “only 5 more weeks to go”!
Do they not understand we haven’t eradicated this virus? And seniors still can’t go out or be around others after that magic date?
Or am I misinformed?
Yes, I believe we will pay a high price for opening too early. Hope we don't go back to square one.No. You are no misinformed. The "peak" and "over" are not the same, and when it's realized things opened too soon, we will be reminded.
Ah OK, so Gov Kemp has just eased some restrictions. But they could easily come back in June if things do not improve.GA (Fulton/Gwinnett)