mikeysmommom
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I'm a friend of Annie's, and I've been following all three of these threads religiously. We were in the same program at the NIH and were very close the first couple of summers that we were there. Unfortunately, we've lost touch a bit the past couple of years, but I do have some insight that I thought I would share.
I read some speculation that an ex-boyfriend of Annie's or ex-girlfriend of Jon's might be involved. Annie was with Jon even before I met her in 2005, so this scenario doesn't seem likely to me. The person would have to be harboring severe jealousy for over 5 years. Annie was completely devoted to Jon even then. When the rest of us would be going out to bars at night, Annie would stay home to go online and play scrabble with Jon since he wasn't with us during the summer.
The reports of Dr. Schlessinger's past sexual harassment made me sick. If he was harassing Annie, I can picture her being the only person to stand up to him. When we all introduced ourselves in our program, Annie described herself as "I may be small, but I carry a big stick", meaning she didn't let herself get stepped on or pushed around. She was very, very sweet but also very feisty. I could also picture the scenario of an unstable person taking a fancy to her, since she was always so friendly to everyone.
I looked through all of Annie's other friends on facebook, and Xiao Hung is not listed.
I hope that's helpful. Reading all of your posts has been a comfort to me and given me something to do since I've been going crazy with worry the past few days.
I just wanted to say I am so sorry for the lose of your friend.I hope they catch whoever is responsible for doing this.