Here are my feelings on this subject, I think that they CA,GA and LA all know that Caylee is not with us anymore, but until there are remains found they are going to hold out that one glimmer of hope. Remember her parents are the ones who brought her into this world and attempted to parent her to the best of their abilities. They are the ones who coddled her when she was a toddler, and started to see her true colors when she became a pre-teen and then a teenager, then they also supported her in every way when she became preganant as a teen, and then they made things possible for her to bring her baby into there home and CA tried to show KC the best way to raise her daughter and gave there granddaughter unconditional love, and I think it was at this point that they started to see the devious and manipulitive ways of KC and before they could try to stop her from self destructing it was to late..
I truly believe that CA & GA were completely willing to take Caylee in and raise her which I no doubt beleive would have been the best think for Caylee and all involved.
But KC thinks of 2 things herself & winning at all costs, so much like a scorned lover she decided that if she could not have Caylee that no one could, what would she say
to her friends when they found out she no longer had custody of her own daughter, and plus you also have the birth father whom I have never thought died in a wreck.
So what do you do after all the money & lies the only thing they could think to do was to dish out some tough love and tell her it was time she make it on her own, so that she could see exactly how hard it is to work full time and raise a family. I also think that when you look at one child Lee, that is older and seems to be doing well in life, and then you look at your other child who is anything but successful you start to guess what all you have done in the past to help create the monster that KC had become.
I think Kc would do anything to hurt CA and taking away her grandchild was the ultimate betral that she could do to hurt her mother and father.
I really feel that the grandparents hearts are destroyed and until someone can show them proof that Caylee is no longer alive that they will always continue to believe she is. And what are they suppose to do with KC they know when she is jailed that she will certainly not say anthing that might have had a clue tucked inside of it, but with her being out of jail and feeling that her family is supporting her and seeing exactly what this is doing to them that she might just say something to someone that will break this case wide open, they also know that they cannot confront her straight out because the info that she will give them will in no way be truethful. So they are damed if the do and damed if they don't, we all think that we would just take our kids by the face and tell them they need to tell the truth, but I dont think no matter what KC told them they would not be able to get the truth out of her no matter what.
You also have the fact that I am sure Baez has told all of the family that the house, the phones and the internet are all bugged and CA stated herself that she did not want to do anything that woudl hinder the investigation.
As far as going with the searchers to look for Caylee that would send a clear message to KC that they do not believe her and they think Caylee is dead again what would they expect to get from KC after that. I think they are just feeling that if they give KC moral support that they will at least get to spend a small amount of time with her before she eventually goes away for a very long time.
All I can say is that I belive that Cindy loved and was much closer to Caylee then KC would have ever been. And that Cindy would still do anything for Caylee, but going out and searching for your grandaughter in the woods knowing that if you come across her remains that will be the way you will remember her for the rest of your life.And I know that there is no way that I could find any of my family members this way. I also think Cindy feels extremly guilty for making KC leave and the fact she took Caylee with her and she got hurt must weight very heavy on her heart.
All I ask is that each of us take a few moments to think about how impossible this case is and that we may react the same way the family has if but in the exact same possition.
I know I hope I never go thru anything like this in my life
