FL-AMBER ALERT Haleigh Cummings 5 yrs. old - Putnam County #8

[KaylynnCouture]

Definitely not the last listing since the Race is listed as Black....

Yeah, and the middle initial and birthdates are different. However, the rest are definitely him.

 

[Kimster]

Do you think its time to do more MySpacing and some Facebooking? I know the GF's MySpace is private, but maybe we can find some other kids in the area who know her and see what they are saying?

 

[mydailyopinions]

I am really not trying to be too judgmental but why would a judge give custody to anyone with that history?

 

[AmyinTheHam]

Just when I thought no other story could sicken me as the CA case did...

Why did this man have custody?

Ok sorry, I am praying Haleigh is somewhere safe, this story continues to baffle me.

 

[Kimster]

Do you think its time to do more MySpacing and some Facebooking? I know the GF's MySpace is private, but maybe we can find some other kids in the area who know her and see what they are saying?

P. S.....I'll start on the MySpace. I'm not real good at Facebook.

 

[mom_of_five]

Can anyone find records for the abuse case(s) Misty's mom filed against her ex-boyfriend? Knowing his name, checking his MySpace, etc would be helpful.

 

[jnTexas]

My guess is little RJ was sound asleep, but they should still have a qualified person interview him.

It sounds as if either the AC guy or GF's brother/nephews were the last to be able to verify if she was alive and present in the home around 5:45 pm.

I am thinking if she were smoking a bit of pot, LE already knows this information.

If someone was there, I believe he would have been seeing her and this is why should would be afraid to mention it. She knows how her bf would take that piece of news on top of everything else. She is so immature and not so much on the intelligent side which is a bad combination for making good choices right now, imo. Lying about ANYTHING right now is a very bad decision.

I agree they should interview the little boy wether he was asleep or not. He could be a great character whitness as to the GF and Dad.

 

[Kimster]

I am really not trying to be too judgmental but why would a judge give custody to anyone with that history?

I kinda went "eek" when I saw that too...and then wondered how much worse biomom's history could be? :waitasec:

 

[cheko1]

My guess is little RJ was sound asleep, but they should still have a qualified person interview him.

It sounds as if either the AC guy or GF's brother/nephews were the last to be able to verify if she was alive and present in the home around 5:45 pm.

I am thinking if she were smoking a bit of pot, LE already knows this information.

If someone was there, I believe he would have been seeing her and this is why should would be afraid to mention it. She knows how her bf would take that piece of news on top of everything else. She is so immature and not so much on the intelligent side which is a bad combination for making good choices right now, imo. Lying about ANYTHING right now is a very bad decision.

Her lies are beginning to stack up.........starting with where they were sleeping she has changed her story several times already. In her bed / all 3 sleeping together / then H & Jr were sleeping together / now she says they were sleeping in another bedroom.

 

[JenBMomto3]

For anyone interested, some other people that rock when stressed:

http://archive.bpdrecovery.com/viewtopic.php?p=7247&sid=79f0baf5609d4cb2320e33d98785e6a6

Kids do it often, too...just google "rock back and forth" and "self soothing" or "self soothe"...you'll get lots of results....

Like I said, I've done it too, when death in family, extreme stress, etc.

Yes I have seen my children do it and I myself have. Most mother's do it ecspecially when pregnant, holding a small child or rocking someone larger that they may have their arms around. Definitely a form of comfort, most people dont even know they are doing it. Goes hand in hand with me saying shhh to my children when crying.(not shhh as in be quiet but but a quieter version anybody know what I mean?? )

 

[passionflower]

Has anyone thought that gf said Haleigh was playing outside at 5 pm (dinnertime)
gf also said brother and 3 nephews came over to hang out.........4 men? a teen, 2 babies??? and they left at 5pm...............did they take Haleigh with them? and didn't bring her back? Told gf they would? Who says Haleigh was in bed? the gf! who said what she had on? the GF. Haleigh could of been missing since 5 pm. Willingly going with new uncle and new relatives??? Everyone high? drunk? Did GF fix dinner? Who ate?
Did she panic when they didn't bring Haleigh home and then called Ronald? and he called LE.........but gf never told on her brother? Could be another story.............(hope not)

I saw GA do a cameo appearance on OTR 'helping' this loving family.

 

[Kimster]

Her lies are beginning to stack up.........starting with where they were sleeping she has changed her story several times already. In her bed / all 3 sleeping together / then H & Jr were sleeping together / now she says they were sleeping in another bedroom.

You forgot the Greta interview tonight when she said Haleigh was sleeping a few inches away...........

 

[Wise Old Owl]

IMO - we need to stop and step back and take another look.

We have a situation that has happened in a "small town" environment. Its obvious that most of the people involved do not have much more than a high school education (if that as we don't know that g/f was still in school or has already quit). We have two local families that are at odds and have been at odds for at least a few years now. Not saying a "Hatfield's and McCoy's" type situation but close. I don't think the myspace or computer stuff is going to reveal much at all - this is NOT an IT group of people. Seems from what digging we have done and found in court records that there are drugs involved on BOTH families sides. Meth is a serious, serious, problem these days and ESPECIALLY in small towns - alot of manufacturing in small towns. Not saying ANY of that is involved here - but maybe just use of it. Seeing what Windchime just put up - this dad has "been around" the hard stuff.

Don't think bio-mom is involved at all. She got out. She's living somewhere else with new baby and new man (could be step-sib - we don't know yet) starting over. If she was going to "take" her child - IMO she would have taken BOTH children. Yet her mother and father both still live there so conflict still arises as skrimishes break out - like running into each other at the grocery store, gas station, etc.

With hearing 15 cadavar dogs - wow that's a lot. The bloodhounds tried tracking and if she would have been close - they would have found her. No, she was not put under the trailer. The woods around that trailer bother me. Big huge section of woods.

Would like to know who the "friends" were that came over with the nephews to play that afternoon.

 

[ElizaAvalon]

Looks like in December of 2002 he was dealing a cornucopia of drugs, eh?

Well, it was before Haleigh's birth.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

For anyone interested, some other people that rock when stressed:

http://archive.bpdrecovery.com/viewtopic.php?p=7247&sid=79f0baf5609d4cb2320e33d98785e6a6

Kids do it often, too...just google "rock back and forth" and "self soothing" or "self soothe"...you'll get lots of results....

Like I said, I've done it too, when death in family, extreme stress, etc.

Yes. I am aware people do this for various reasons. However, it is still possible she does not fit into the categories you have mentioned. She did not appear to me to be "self soothing" or anything of the sort. She didn't move a muscle tonight. If this is something she does as a "response", it is odd it disappeared overnight. Her movements last night were jerky not fluid.

 

[mydailyopinions]

You forgot the Greta interview tonight when she said Haleigh was sleeping a few inches away...........

And that Haleigh was the one who got up to go to the bathroom and when she didn't come back, gf went to check on her and found the door opened:waitasec:

 

[FifthEssence]

Misty said the AC man, her brother and his friends were there from about 5-5:30p.m.
(on Greta this evening)

Was the dead bolt tampered with? What did LE say?
If it wasn't, where was the key normally kept?

 

[JaneInOz]

I am really not trying to be too judgmental but why would a judge give custody to anyone with that history?

Agreed !

What on earth did the mother do to lose custody to this guy ?

And whoa his g/f is 17 uh uh something is not good here.
Sorry but a 17 year old does NOT want a 4 and 5 year old instant children family
IMO

no way !

There is no way she would be responsible enough - they are not her children
They are not even her step children...

The conflicting stories also a red flag

This is sounding worse every minute

 

[passionflower]

I am really not trying to be too judgmental but why would a judge give custody to anyone with that history?

I was thinking the same thing.........and RC said he was the better parent???

I'm still thinking Haleigh was gone before bedtime..........

 

[Beyond Belief]

somewhere it was said the nephews were around the same age as the Cummings children.