Bethan
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Am I the only one who has some reservations about this gentleman being identified & “returned” to his family’?
Don’t get me wrong....as a keen ‘sleuther’ I am intrigued by this mystery & have followed closely since I became aware of his discovery in early August 2018....however Demin appears to have gone to some lengths NOT to reveal his identity. It cannot be accidental surely.
We have also read that he shared information with a fellow hiker that he had been abused by his family, left home & vowed never to return.....( during a conversation where the other hiker had opened up about her own abuse.)
I don’t remember when/where I read this....but ( pretty) sure it was here on WS....I don’t use other sites....but sorry I can’t link to this.
I believe this was one isolated conversation/mention of this....so have no idea of the veracity of this ‘claim’......however that notion has always stuck with me.
Does anyone else remember this please?
I’m just concerned about his ‘right’ to remain anonymous....though I presume if he had felt strongly about this he would have written this down to be found after his death....as he surely realised he was dying in his final days.
Just my own personal thoughts.
I too am intrigued & want to know more about the person Denim was before the hike....however have misgivings.
@othram Is it safe to assume that if/when his true identity is known, checks will be made to see if he left any will or document stating his wishes as to what should happen to his mortal remains upon his death?
Would checks be made, prior to his family being informed? I’m sure you can answer as to protocol in such a situation.
There is no criticism intended in this post.....just concern for someone who feels like ‘ a friend’ to many.
Don’t get me wrong....as a keen ‘sleuther’ I am intrigued by this mystery & have followed closely since I became aware of his discovery in early August 2018....however Demin appears to have gone to some lengths NOT to reveal his identity. It cannot be accidental surely.
We have also read that he shared information with a fellow hiker that he had been abused by his family, left home & vowed never to return.....( during a conversation where the other hiker had opened up about her own abuse.)
I don’t remember when/where I read this....but ( pretty) sure it was here on WS....I don’t use other sites....but sorry I can’t link to this.
I believe this was one isolated conversation/mention of this....so have no idea of the veracity of this ‘claim’......however that notion has always stuck with me.
Does anyone else remember this please?
I’m just concerned about his ‘right’ to remain anonymous....though I presume if he had felt strongly about this he would have written this down to be found after his death....as he surely realised he was dying in his final days.
Just my own personal thoughts.
I too am intrigued & want to know more about the person Denim was before the hike....however have misgivings.
@othram Is it safe to assume that if/when his true identity is known, checks will be made to see if he left any will or document stating his wishes as to what should happen to his mortal remains upon his death?
Would checks be made, prior to his family being informed? I’m sure you can answer as to protocol in such a situation.
There is no criticism intended in this post.....just concern for someone who feels like ‘ a friend’ to many.