Dargon335
Insufficient facts invite speculation.
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Sadly I have to agree with this statement.I'm a social worker and domestic violence researcher. These guys see both child and mom as their property and as such they have "a right" to do whatever they want to them. They do not see them as autonomous humans with human rights, but only in relationship to themselves: my girlfriend, my wife, my child. Therefore, ex-girlfriend is stealing two items of his property, herself, and "his" child, and he must get back control by any means necessary. I know your statement was rhetorical, those of us with normal relationships and boundaries and respect for our partners will never truly be able to wrap our heads around this mindset, but unfortunately a shocking number of our neighbors and family members have adopted it.
In the fairly short time I've been on WS I've read many threads (way too many) involving domestic violence. This is the main reason I ask about relationship status as well as any history of domestic violence or MH issues.
IMO this case directly parallels the ongoing Ciera Locklair Breland disappearance.