FL - Police investigate 7-year-old's hanging death

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The poor little boy. If he was taken from his mother as a baby then how did he know if she was a liar or she passed lying on to him. Some adult told him that and about satan, and I just wonder if it was the aunt or uncle that he lived with or some religious fanatic foster parent. The teenager watching him should have never let him go into the bathroom alone or probably even timed him out in his room during a big meltdown. One thing so sad about foster care is how they send some kids from home to home when they act out around their own kids or the other more well behaved foster kids. They probably put him into a home where a known sexually acting out child was living and so the cycle continued. I'm convinced that some kids who have these type problems have inherited bipolar disorder from a parent and are under diagnosed and not treated properly by doctors.

I was thinking the same thing. Someone in anger told him that he "was just like his mother, a liar". Speaking from experience you can't imagine what it does to a child to hear how bad their parent is, and then in the next sentence how much you're like that parent.

I wish there had been someone in Gabriel's life that understood him and what he needed. I'm not saying love would have cured all his troubles but it seems he was shuffled from one person to the next when things got difficult.
 
Hi everybody! First time poster here! (hope I do this right)

Shocked and saddened by this story, of course. I noticed that the article mentioned that this boy was sexually molested by another child. It could have been during one of his foster home experiences, but it probably occurred in between, during a stay at an institution. I worked for a couple of years as a houseparent at a children's home, and I can attest to the fact that whenever abused kids are thrown together, they abuse each other. We even busted three-year-olds engaging in acts like the one little Gabriel described (at night, as they slept 3 to a room). We also had a boy who would victimize his own younger brothers whenever he got a chance. For many of them, this sort of behavior is all they know. The saddest thing is that some of those children were in for different reasons (physical abuse, parents on drugs or in jail, some were even brought to the home voluntarily by parents who needed time to get their lives "in order"), but by the time they left the children's home, they could add sexual abuse to their list of traumatic life experiences.
Years later, when I became a teacher and was called upon to report cases of suspected child abuse, I always hesitated because of what I saw in the children's home. It's a really tough call to make when you're not sure about the homelife, but you're very sure that the alternative is terrible.
Btw, in my experience, the psychotropic meds are passed out like candies to even the littlest kids in state care, especially Lexapro and Adderall. It's heartbreaking--so young, and so messed up.
 
:Welcome-12-june: Celeste! Good post.
 
Yes, welcome Celeste. Thank you for your post. It's heartbreaking that we can't do better for our children. I can understand how difficult a decision it is to make...choosing between the lesser of two evils.
 
This is so sad. Who would ever think that a 7 yo would actually follow through and be able to kill himself? :(

IF ONLY................

RIP Little Man. :(

fran
 
IMO this belongs in the current crimes section.
Failed on every level.

May he now have the peace he has never known.
RIP Sweet boy.
 
....god,what does it take to realize the foster care system does not work....these poor children need specialists who know how to take care of them
 
The news stories about children just keep getting more heart breaking.

RIP Sweetie
 
....god,what does it take to realize the foster care system does not work....these poor children need specialists who know how to take care of them

The foster father is an assistant principal in a Miami-Dade school, foster mother a nurse. DCF probably viewed them as the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow for this child.

Don't know if there are any laws in FL that would hold them accountable for neglect but hope so. I'm still not convinced this was a suicide.....
 
A seven year old is hanging from the shower and you're looking for a SCREWDRIVER?!
GMAB!!! Bust the effin door down. :banghead:
This is SO not adding up...
 
Ok no way... I just watched the babysitters interview.. I don't buy it. That babysitter beat that poor baby to death or hung him there his self as a punishment.
 
This story just broke my heart. This poor boy never had a chance at life from the get go. So sad. I am on the fence too if he really took his own life or not.....The babysitter is starting to look good for this as a murder.

Gozgals
 
Am I the only one that's bothered by the probability that DCF will try to make this "violation" with the 19 year-old the big issue here?

It sounds like that was the least of this boy's problems. Poor sweet angel. It sounds like he was failed from birth, probably before, and his life was episode after episode of being failed by others.
 
Am I the only one that's bothered by the probability that DCF will try to make this "violation" with the 19 year-old the big issue here?

It sounds like that was the least of this boy's problems. Poor sweet angel. It sounds like he was failed from birth, probably before, and his life was episode after episode of being failed by others.

No, you're not.
DFACS has to do something to make themselves look a little less inept...they can't investigate the real problem (THE FATALLY FLAWED SYSTEM) because it will cast them in a (more) negative light.
 
As a Foster parent I can tell you WE DO sign papers saying we will not leave our foster children with someone not approved. It sounds like this child was most likely in a theraputic foster home and should of never been left alone with someone not trained and or approved by the state. This child took special care and that care was not given PERIOD.


We foster parent are held above others and if they can not or don't want to accept that then they should not be a foster parent. We get children that have already been harmed (abuse neglicted ect) and that is NOT like raising a child that has not been abused.

IMO this child should of been in RTC and not a foster home. He sounds like he needed a lot of help :(.

THIS IS why he was moved from home to home. He would get to be to much for a foster parent and they would have to find a new home instead he should of been inpatient in RTC getting the help he needed around the clock until he got better. It is time for the state to stop being CHEAP and get our children the help they NEED.


and BTW that babysitter seems CREAPY to me.


BTW.. I want to add. I can not and will not fault any of the foster homes that could not care for them as his needs was more then they could handle. They tried to get him into a home that could which is a lot better then keeping a child you can not handle and yes a 7 year old CAN be a lot to handle with all of his issues. Some can control the whole home with their fits ect. THIS IS NOT HIS FAULT. The state should of had gotten this child FULL TIME 24/7 HELP.
 
The foster father is an assistant principal in a Miami-Dade school, foster mother a nurse. DCF probably viewed them as the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow for this child.

Don't know if there are any laws in FL that would hold them accountable for neglect but hope so. I'm still not convinced this was a suicide.....


It's too bad these fine upstanding folks didn't obey the rules (like I'm sure the principal's students are expected to or face consequences). Leaving an extremely troubled little boy who has meltdowns and signs of depression with a teenager who has not completed the proper training is not a sign of intelligence but more of an " I'll do what I want even though I'm not supposed to". If the child had so many problems one of the adults should have stayed home with him just as they might have done with a biological child, hopefully anyway.
 
imo Foster families are part of the DCF system. These foster parents had both the educational and professional experience that strongly suggest they were capable of making common sense decisions. They agreed to accept responsibility for the boy fully aware of his background. They received payment for his care.

And they chose to dump this child on an inexperienced 19 year old. I don't see this as DCF making a scapegoat out of these people. Not at all.
 
Behind Gabriel Myers' sweet smile lay a sad, scarred soul

Broward authorities first learned of Gabriel in June(2008) when his mother, Candace Myers, was found passed-out in a parked car with him in the back seat. Gabriel's grandparents, who raised him most of his life, had brought the boy down from Ohio only weeks earlier after his mother said she wanted him back.

Records indicate Gabriel apparently had been molested by an older boy while living in Ohio.

http://www.sun-sentinel.com/news/lo...042509-gabriel-myers-hang-dcf,0,3526476.story
 

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