GA - Suspicion over heat death of Cooper, 22 mo., Cobb County, June 2014, #10

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Inside the Stonebridge Church in Marietta, which the Harris family has attended for two years, Pastor David Eldridge briefly talked about the case Sunday. What happens in the legal system is “all outside our hands,” he told the assembly of 125 people inside the small storefront enclave.
“We need to look for opportunities to love Ross and Leanna,” he said.

http://www.myajc.com/news/news/crim...e-much-debated/ngZgN/#ef58401a.3521177.735420

Wow! What about Cooper? JMO
 
I wonder what the pastor means when he says "some issues".

The pastor didn't say that. Lyle did. If I had to guess, I'd say the sexting and meeting up with minors, especially while married with a child, would be viewed as "some issues." I certainly think those are "some issues"!
 
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Originally Posted by TorisMom003
And two weeks before Cooper's death, possible shortly after this story about Luong, Harris and/or Leanna switched Cooper from a forward facing car seat to a rear facing car seat.

MOO
I believe the story is that the FF seat was in RH's car since Cooper rode in that one most. LH took a trip to Bama with Cooper and they switched carseats and then never switched them back.


Does anyone know why LH went to Bama with Cooper - and when that was?
 
It seems like if one wants to maximize the opportunities to love Ross, Skout.com and Kik are the places to be, though what with LE taking the phone away I suppose the love connection is on hold.

did you see the pictures of him on skout? there was one picture and he's standing in front of a urinal. appropriate place for him.
 
Gag! Double gag!

he tells that he's married, he likes women. about his physique he describes it as more to love. (GAG SOME MORE!!!) and his personality, well he describes that as harmless. oh something else, he said something about if the person doesn't want to talk just say so. being ignored is the worst. he's not wearing a wedding band.
 
did you see the pictures of him on skout? there was one picture and he's standing in front of a urinal. appropriate place for him.

No - and having seen RH and heard about his skanky ways, skout isn't anywhere I am rushing off to look at! I can't even bear to look at the man's face, let alone anything else.
 
That is amazing that the congregation member didn't see anything in the hearing! That is a scary Thought! JMO

They are in a very difficult position. These same people were among the ones who gave RH a standing ovation at the funeral and now they are faced with all this stuff emerging about him, I'm sure there are more than a few of them who are feeling at the least conflicted right about now.
 
I think what is such a confusion in this case is that in other cases (i.e. Casey Anthony) we see behavior prior where people can say "oh I knew something was wrong", "red flags" in behavior, lying, etc. In this case, we keep hearing about what great parents RH and LH were, how much they "loved" Cooper, etc. So my question is what are the red flags and when will they come out? There has to be some. Someone doesn't go from being a "good parent" to this overnight. I know the sexting is one, but what are the others? And one thing I keep coming back to is how "over the top" the supposed "good parenting" is. Like saying "when are you picking up my buddy?", like saying "I strapped him in tight in case of an accident", those kinds of things. A truly good parent doesn't talk about what a good parent they are. Someone who doubts their parenting would constantly need reassurance. I wonder if this was evident in interactions with people. Did RH or LH go out of their way to seek parental reassurance or to "prove" themselves good parents? Maybe RH didn't know how to be a truly good parent and so just mimicked what he thought was good parent behavior. Maybe that is a red flag. Problem is, some people seem to be convinced by the act.
 
No - and having seen RH and heard about his skanky ways, skout isn't anywhere I am rushing off to look at! I can't even bear to look at the man's face, let alone anything else.

i don't want to download the app to see everything he has there. no telling who might try to contact a person there. another ross harris. but i saw them on another website. if i saw him naked i'd be sorely tempted to shoot it off and i have really good aim.
 
he tells that he's married, he likes women. about his physique he describes it as more to love. (GAG SOME MORE!!!) and his personality, well he describes that as harmless. oh something else, he said something about if the person doesn't want to talk just say so. being ignored is the worst. he's not wearing a wedding band.
I have to say thanks to you and others who are willing to go to these sites in the interests of sleuthing - Im too squeamish and couldn't do it myself.
 
Nothing like taking a selfie in front of a urinal, hand in pocket, trying to look like God's gift to women. He was thinner and better looking in that photo, and that will be the last time I say anything nice about that creep.
 
I have to say thanks to you and others who are willing to go to these sites in the interests of sleuthing - Im too squeamish and couldn't do it myself.

lol, i didn't. but i was reading a board and someone joined just to go see what the sleazoid had put on there. i was surprised it hadn't been taken down by now.
 
That's kind of the point of a defense lawyer....

true and that's fine as long as they don't lie to put doubt into the jury's mind. i've been watching trials since old betty broderick and some lawyers lie like rugs, they're so crooked when they die they're going to have to be screwed into their graves.
 
I appreciate your point, and perhaps it was just a bizarre (IMO) word choice in a terrible situation. At least according to him, he didn't realize he'd done it until he was driving and then he quickly pulled over and got him out of the car. Agreed there would be an element of time there for him to dread getting a clearer look at his son from the time he "realized" he left him in there to the time he could pull over, so I take your point.

Nevertheless, I think it is a very strange thing to say to the wife. Who really cares what he dreads/dreaded? Why did he care? He had, on his own account, just roasted his son - and his attention should have been at least on his guilt from having done that as opposed to whether Cooper's appearance would be disturbing enough to be dreaded. Likewise, his wife's concern on whether he said too much is a great legal concern, yet a bizarre topic under the circumstances. Likewise, his concern over his job and possible punishment when his son's life just ended based on his own actions, negligent or intentional.

I just don't get his behavior in any respect. Another example, given that I think he did it on purpose, is cursing the police while he was on the phone. Why do that if you want them to believe it was an accident - why antagonize them at all? That really seems like a reaction of desperation, which would lead more to the innocent side, though I don't really think it indicates that.

So, anyway, digesting your point I think none of it amounts to a confession. But, it all comes together that so far as we know his expressed thoughts to his wife (and maybe there's more to come on that) were more concern for RH's future, and minimizing Cooper's loss (he was peaceful or whatever) which to me is similar to his wife's attitude in her funereal comments, where she said she wouldn't bring Cooper back if she could yet she was "doing it" for RH and perhaps they'd have new children.

Worst to me was watching him during the hearing, during which he showed no reaction that I saw to testimony about Cooper and his death, yet seemed attentive and alert during timeline statements and the like that I suppose he thinks he will be able to torture into saving his hide.

The guy is flat-out bizarre, for certain.

I agree that his behavior is off from the way most of us would react in a situation like that - and that's what set people's hinky meters soaring from the beginning. You gave some great examples of those "off" behaviors that are, IMO, much stronger than the use of the past tense in that one sentence where the present tense wouldn't make sense.

I would really like to hear the full context (if there is a larger one) of LH's saying something like "I hope you didn't say too much." Never in a million years could I imagine saying that in a situation like this.
 
Being ignored is the worst. And once you have a baby a lot of the attention is no longer on you, I'll bet he was resentful of Cooper. LH just didn't have the time for him, and the sleazy women had time for him, why, I would never know.
 
I posted a similar comment. She does remind me of Susan Smith. I'll bet Casey Anthony is saying " A good plan but such a bad liar!".

Me, too! I actually googled old photos of Susan Smith to compare their looks and their demeanor. Very similar imho....
 
Being ignored is the worst. And once you have a baby a lot of the attention is no longer on you, I'll bet he was resentful of Cooper. LH just didn't have the time for him, and the sleazy women had time for him, why, I would never know.

"being ignored is the worst" - yeah way worse than joining a website to have sex with random people while your wife is at home. I think really that's code for hey if I'm going to take the time to share my God-given greatness you owe me a response or else it's your fault if I keep messaging you.

Very insightful though picking that phrase up and linking it to resentment possibly of Cooper for interfering with LH time. Not getting a response from a woman when he precisely wanted it, even from strange women, was of such concern he pointed it out right up front as "the worst."
 
lol, i didn't. but i was reading a board and someone joined just to go see what the sleazoid had put on there. i was surprised it hadn't been taken down by now.

seems only her sites have been deleted
 
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