It's a hard thing for those of use who love solitude and wild places but also walk through the world with the perceived vulnerability of being or appearing female. I used to walk for my health, daily, in the remote village I lived in for years. Only a couple of dozen people lived there, and the walks I took wound through bushland that was dizzying with the white trunks of eucalypts, and deceptively deadly with the hidden mouths of hundred year old mineshafts. I regularly walked up to 8km without seeing another soul. I rarely felt unsafe there, even though if I'd gone missing, I would have been easily 'disappeared'. It was once I moved back to the 'big smoke' that I stopped walking like that. I felt more frightened walking the loop of the roads in my suburb surrounded by hundreds of people and constant car traffic, and the unforgiving cement paths were more damaging to my body than the slick clay mud and rolling sharp rocks and boulders ever were. I was probably just fortunate that nobody in village bore me ill will, or watched me with murder in their heart. I certainly would have been alone and without help if anyone stumbled across me out there, whereas, for all that the tale of Kitty Genovese and others like her tell us of how alone we are surrounded by other humans, at least in a city the potential for rescue exists.
The difference, as always, is that for that man you met, it was probably just an observation that amused but did not alarm him, whereas for many of the rest of us, the possibility of being murdered by a stranger and left in the woods is something we are conditioned to and braced for the potential of from a very early age. And we know that the person who can do such a thing doesn't have to look like a cartoon villain - most of the time they look and act like a normal person. RH looks exactly like I expected him to, if I'm honest. A middle aged architect with grooming and dress stuck in the seventies to early eighties. Unremarkable. Tall, yes, but I have men in my extended family almost as tall, if not quite as large with it.
MOO