I can't get past the fact that immediately after her daughter died, she spent the whole day in bed with her boyfriend.
I can't get past the fact that immediately after her daughter died, she spent the whole day in bed with her boyfriend.
Hmm. That's interesting. When I was about 17, I did something really REALLY stupid. Looking back now, it was no big deal. Nothing ever came of it, nobody found out, I never told a soul, there were no consequences and it wasn't illegal, yet I felt as if I'd killed somebody because I felt incredible guilt over what I'd done. The day after, I laid in my bed watching I Love Lucy on TV. I watched that channel all day, no matter what came on, I just never turned the channel. I was THAT afraid of going forward that I wouldn't even turn the damn channel. I laid in bed the entire next day, and night, and the next day, and probably got up for dinner the second day, and then moved forward a step at a time. And all I did was something stupid I did to myself.
But my point is, I can imagine going to the far away place in one's mind after doing something so stupid, that all you wanna do is watch idiot TV and sleep.
I agree with you. I saw shame and humilitation behind her emotion.
You cannot fake that. Because people who are lying about abuse do not understand that you feel ashamed, humiliated, embarassed that there must be wrong with you that caused someone who is supposed to love you to hate you so much.
I always marvel at how things look different to different people... I can appreciate what you saw. What I saw was someone realizing that she had admitted her whole story had been a lie and that she couldn't go back now...
:highfive: Butwhatif?
I admit there were times we were :slap:
Some days were more like :slapfight: At times I wanted to:trout:
But tonight I want to :hug: This is your best post ever !!!!
I hope we can still illowfight2: just for fun :crazy:
I have believed from Day 31 that KC was present when Caylee died and that KC has the answers to her death. And, I have always believed that KC was responsible for Caylee's death either by murder or neglect.
When JB presented the theory that Caylee drowned in the pool and that KC was in a state of denial due to sexual abuse I MIGHT have considered that as a truth IF JB had not added all of the other conditions; RK taking the body, botched police investigation, etc., etc., etc. There is too much evidence to dispute these claims.
It crossed my mind today that it seems as if JB is almost trying to practice "passive obedience" with ICA or trying to just get this trial done and behind him in the sense that ICA has given him nothing to work with for three years except lies and more lies. We know that his private practice is at a standstill and he is not earning the money he expected. Is he sending her a message that, "OK, KC, I am going to present this case exactly as you want me to, against my best judgement, and - if it doesn't work for the jury it is on you".
Or, has he bought into her stories? Can the doctor become as crazy as the patient?
I do not mean to make my thoughts far fetched but I retired from over thirty plus years in the court and criminal justice systems and have never heard such off the wall questions by any attorney as those JB asked of TL this morning regarding the purchase of chloroform, guns and duct tape by KC at the video store. ?????
I realize that the the typical juror or person in the public has not read the evidence over the years as we have but once the evidence is presented over the weeks to come the jurors will figure it out. They are not stupid and JB is acting as if they are. That will come back to bite him.
Or...maybe ICA is the author of JB's idiotic questions!
ICA and her DT will all be sitting at the same :loser: table when this case concludes...my mind has never waivered...even with the latest shocker on "opening statement" day of tall tales.
It may be just me but I feel JB might as well have stuck the needle in her arm himself after giving his opening statement.
You were grieving, dear Miss James. The sighing...classic symptom of loss (and fear, IMO)...and it doesn't necessarily have to be brought on by death...it's an intense emotional reaction. And it hurts like hell.I want to touch on something that hasn't been brought up ,yet.
Many posters on this forum have lost a child .Perhaps they will chime in.
When you lose a child suddenly,unexpectedly (my only frame of reference) the grief is not just emotional. There is a physical reaction . I was unable to control shaking for days. For more than a month I had periods of breath holding followed by a sighs.I don't know how else to describe the odd breathing,but I was not in control of it. My thought processing was slow. It was difficult to remember things. I couldn't eat or sleep for weeks. I wanted to .Sweet oblivion for awhile,but I couldn't.
It does not matter if ICA grew up hiding her feelings.There is NO WAY.She could find her beloved daughter dead ,in the morning,and act naturally by that evening. Just not physically possible ,IMO.
I must admit that I agree with your Mother. I have felt from day 1 that this was a terrible accident. Could her Dad have found Caylee and helped Casey hide her, yes ! I recall the dogs hitting by Caylee's play house in the back yard.The defense has not changed my mind, however, my mom who doesn't know anything about this case listened to the defence and said I dont think she is guilty, I think the baby drowned. Because I have followed the case and know how JB is I dont buy it, but it concerns me that someone who hasn't followed it could beleive it, because the jury might buy it, all they need is one to buy it.