southcitymom
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That's an interesting perspective which I truly hadn't considered! I've always felt that female rape fantasies stem, in large part, from the puritanical double standard we are raised under - that we must be good girls and hide our sexual desires or else be labeled *advertiser censored*. If someone forecibly takes you, it wasn't your fault, so even if you really wanted it or even (gasp!) enjoyed it, you can't be held responsible for what happened. In some bizarre way, this makes it safe to succumb to desires.Nova said:Actually, I suspect it's a nearly universal fantasy: who doesn't want to think himself or herself so overwhelming attractive that nothing can deter a suitor? But when it is a man fantasizing about an overly aggressive woman (see every teen comedy film ever made), it often isn't called "rape."
As you pointed out, I am talking about fantasy here - an entirely different dimension than the real world where, of course, no one desires to be the victim of such violence.