I am sorry if I sound harsh. I understand the confusion. But I don't condone family that continues to repeat the pain. I said no. I meant no. And no one to this day questions my stance. I didn't go to "uncle's" funeral. I don't care to hear about how he was nice in other ways. As if what he made me do is minimized by his kindness to others.
"he fed the homeless, and gave to orphans, and baked cookies at Christmas...
a lot of kids don't have it as good as you" So be a good little girl and shut up about it already. Was it really that bad?
These people are adults now. They have a choice. They don't have to go to Sunday dinner and pretend it is all okay. But they do