If I Could Ask Cindy, George & Lee a Few Questions

[unsaid]

I would just like to know the exact information that she has received that leads her to honestly sound like she thinks Caylee is still alive...regardless of the publicized DNA results. She doesn't sound crazy to me or like she is covering anything up. She sounds like she gets tips from people saying they've sighted Caylee. Whether those tips are true or not...imagine if someone called you and said they spotted your missing loved one? Wouldn't you still investigate those tips even if there was evidence to the contrary? I just think she won't rest until all of those tips are investigated.

Not saying she's right or wrong...just saying I think I get where she's coming from. And no...I'm absolutely not involved with this case lol. I'm just not looking to join the lynch mob. It's too easy just to call someone crazy and totally dismiss what they are saying.

 

[magiemay]

Well as I stated when I started this thread there are all of these and most likely a zillion more things we would like to ask Cindy if given the opportunity. You know I just wish she had a true friend as I do not see one anywhere around her.

My heart does ache for people who seem so all alone. Especially when the sad part is that they have people all around them who would be happy to be a friend but they just will not let them.

I had never even heard of TES before this took place but I am a person who does my homework and have looked all into Tes. I believe with all my heart these are outstanding people. I think they have more human compassion than most people will ever know. No offense meant to anyone else but lets face it folks these guys do not just talk the talk they walk the walk. I believe that if Ca would have just put down all of her fear and anger and let these people they most likely would have been the best friends that she could have ever hoped to have, I see the compassion and hurt in Tim Miller's eyes and in his voice.
If we ever had that coffee chat that spoke of I would say Cindy please stop and look at how you are hurting yourself, as well as those around you who would be your friend and love you with no strings attached.
I really feel until you learn to stop being so snippy and going off the deep end you are not going to ever know what true friendship can be and how much a friend can love you.
I don't know it is just a thought.

 

[Firefly]

I would ask her if she truly wants Caylee home......she referred to her as "this child" on NG tonight and that just perked my ears up..... Isn't Caylee your GRANDDAUGHTER, Cindy?

If you believe that she is alive.....I know and acknowledge you feel this, I am sure I would be feeling it too..... If you want to find something you lost, like your keys, you go first to where it was last seen........ In this case, you need to back to your daughter, Casey. It is logical and correct. I know you do NOT want to go there and do this but it needs to be done, dear Cindy. If you can't do this, take George and Lee with you and go to her in love. Do not leave there until she tells you something that is tangible and true. Do not be afraid of what words you will hear, do not let this fear drive you as it has done to point fingers everywhere and nowhere. Be strong, I will all support you if you do this. I know many would have your back if you do this.

Caylee is alive.... There is someone out there NOT holding your Granddaughter hostage but enjoying her company, watching her say the funny things she says, helping her to learn her ABC's and giving her all their love and affection as a great parent or grandparent will do. They are watching you "lose it" on national TV every night and screaming at the LE and media to go look for her in Texas, Puerto Rico and Mexico. If THEY have your baby, they surely know what the truth is and they will not come foward and release her because they know you are throwing the LE way off the case to save your daughter now, which puts them safe to hold Caylee for as long as they want. If you want her back you need to go to the jail and speak to Casey for she has NEVER told you she was far, honey. She has stated she is close....in her heart....Caylee is close. Listen to her and prove her right!!!!

Stop this madness, I give you permission to stop it and now embrace what everyone is doing for you out of the goodness of their hearts. Please do not continue down this road of destruction and lead your lives based on leads and phantom phone calls. Go to the source, patiently waiting in protective custody to be asked. Do not be afraid.
YOU are the key to all of this stopping and ending.

 

[txsvicki]

I'd ask Cindy if she's really and truly prepared for Casey to go on and possibly have more children or step children someday. I'd also ask at what age she started noticing Casey lying and stealing or having disrespectful meltdowns. That's about it.

 

[Marsha]

Cindy is still saying Zanni Gonzales stole the baby......Why hasn't she been able to get out of Casey the information about Zanni's residence, or previous residences, so that she can investigate those places herself? (After all Casey said she had been the Nanny for 1/2 yrs.) That is the only way she can truly know if Zanni exists (which of course as a kidnapper, she doesn't).
Casey told so many lies.....leaving Caylee on the stairsteps at Sawgrass apartments......but nobody would leave there child at the doorstep, stairsteps, driveway, curbside, corner, parking stall without ever going into a residence.
So how could Casey explain that to her mother. ie: "Well, mom, I never knew if she really lived inside those places cause I never went in.....I always dropped her off at the staircase".....ha ha ha

 

[Ladytazz]

I would like to know: after Amy H. led you to Casey at her BF's apartment, and you loaded Casey and Amy into your car, and dropped Amy off at her place, where did you and Casey go? You stated that you "drove around" for a couple of hours. Why were you driving around for hours? How did Casey justify this?

I'm guessing she took Cindy on the same wild goose chase she took LE on the next day.

 

[Nedthan Johns]

Cindy have you visited the sawgrass apartments and gone door to door asking anyone if they have ever seen your granddaughter or this Zenida?

In all the days you had Casey at home, why has a sketch of this Zenida not appeared? If Casey knew this woman for 2 years, why does the media and public not have a description of her to help in the search?

Why have your family and friends not rallied behind you?

If you told Casey's childhood friend to stay away from Casey and that she is Psychotic, why did you go to the extent to warn this friend, yet have not gone to the extent to explain why you feel this own way about your daughter to the police

What plausable explaination can you come up with for the smell of decomposition in the back of your trunk, when you know this has been scientifically proven to have come from a dead body? If not Caylee's who?

Why have you not hired or asked for a private investigator to help you and your family?

Why do you continue to confront strangers, yell, curse and dispell the public's sympathetic natures towards Caylee?

Was Casey ever in therapy at any time?

Why when you and your husband smelled decomposition in your vehicle, cleaned the car including washing the pants of Caylee?

Why does your own brother say you are in denial and have been for some time regarding Casey?

 

[Nedthan Johns]

Ooooh, oooh great thread!!! I want to seriously ask Cindy: "If Casey knows who has Caylee as you have repeatedly stated but she can't tell the police how to go about finding her because it would put Caylee in danger, then WHY do you criticize the public and the media for not searching for her?? Would we not be "putting her in danger" by looking for her??

P.S. St. Crispian hope you don't mind me jackin your idea!

GREAT QUESTION TIME!! :woohoo:

 

[Nedthan Johns]

I would ask her if she truly wants Caylee home......she referred to her as "this child" on NG tonight and that just perked my ears up..... Isn't Caylee your GRANDDAUGHTER, Cindy?

If you believe that she is alive.....I know and acknowledge you feel this, I am sure I would be feeling it too..... If you want to find something you lost, like your keys, you go first to where it was last seen........ In this case, you need to back to your daughter, Casey. It is logical and correct. I know you do NOT want to go there and do this but it needs to be done, dear Cindy. If you can't do this, take George and Lee with you and go to her in love. Do not leave there until she tells you something that is tangible and true. Do not be afraid of what words you will hear, do not let this fear drive you as it has done to point fingers everywhere and nowhere. Be strong, I will all support you if you do this. I know many would have your back if you do this.

Caylee is alive.... There is someone out there NOT holding your Granddaughter hostage but enjoying her company, watching her say the funny things she says, helping her to learn her ABC's and giving her all their love and affection as a great parent or grandparent will do. They are watching you "lose it" on national TV every night and screaming at the LE and media to go look for her in Texas, Puerto Rico and Mexico. If THEY have your baby, they surely know what the truth is and they will not come foward and release her because they know you are throwing the LE way off the case to save your daughter now, which puts them safe to hold Caylee for as long as they want. If you want her back you need to go to the jail and speak to Casey for she has NEVER told you she was far, honey. She has stated she is close....in her heart....Caylee is close. Listen to her and prove her right!!!!

Stop this madness, I give you permission to stop it and now embrace what everyone is doing for you out of the goodness of their hearts. Please do not continue down this road of destruction and lead your lives based on leads and phantom phone calls. Go to the source, patiently waiting in protective custody to be asked. Do not be afraid.
YOU are the key to all of this stopping and ending.

IMO she is referring to Caylee as "this child" because she has already detached herself from Caylee. Patsy Ramsey did this after the murder of JB, continually refered to her as "that child" I would never hurt "that child".

 

[CaliKid]

My biggest question is this: You, Cindy are a nurse. George was in LE. Therefore you both know about DNA. So how can you deny away what the FBI lab and the Body Farm are saying is proof that Caylee's dead body was in Casey's trunk?

 

[Terilee]

What are you on? and where can I get some of that?

 

[STEADFAST]

I would ask Cindy why she is so sure that Caylee is with someone who is taking her to public places and taking good care of her. Who would assume that, when this alleged person is also supposedly "threatening" Caylee's life????

How can she be so nonchalant about what could be happening to Caylee if she is in the hands of a kidnapper? How could she not question Casey about the whereabouts of Caylee when she had the chance? Who could have resisted no matter what the attorney said?

The only way she could have resisted asking is if she if she truly does not want to know the answer.

 

[Dolphinmomcca]

If I could sit down with Cindy I would ask if Mental Illness runs in her family. (Im not being sarcastic either) The way she portrays herself seems like she comes from a long line of dysfunctional people.

 

[JustInCase]

What are you on? and where can I get some of that?

She's on devistation, denial, hope, and I'm sure a whole array of emotions! Many of us have thrown the comforter over our heads for simply losing [yet still alive] b/f's and g/f's and yet sooo many here seem to find humor in the GP's ability [or lack there-of] to cope w/ this more-than-likely tragic event that leads to the death of their grandaughter? Even I try to grasp what little hope there is in this case.

I read more than I reply here. I've read some interesting theories that range from hopeful to "not so much." I always try my dangdest to keep an open mind, and take no gratification ... AND find ZERO humor, in the devistation and confusion this case presents for even us as concerned citizens, NEVERMIND for those who are closely associated with the case and the hand that's being dealt to them, that can easily bread reasonable doubt if you try hard enough to believe it ... IE Cindy.

What would I ask her?

Why the secrecy on any [supposed] information you have, that contradicts what LE has presented the public? How can we help [based on the theory that four eyes are better than two] If you refuse to share what you "know?"

What is being done to search for Caylee in PR?

What was your intial "gut instinct" when you realized Caylee had been missing for so long?

What is the most important piece of evidence you feel you have in this case?

The questions could go on and on ...

Just pleasE try to remember ... that we've all, at one time or another tried to rationalize and maintain some sense of sanity in our lives for whatever reason ... and most likely it was for reasons not even near similar to what the Anthony's are attempting to cope with here.

 

[marly56]

i would say CA tell me what you know. get it off your chest so you can move on with you and your families life..i would say please tell us all so we can finally put this to rest and give little caylee a memorial of respect so that she will be at peace...or tell us what you and your family and JB know so that we can rescue little caylee.

 

[Evan's Mom]

I'd just like to give Cindy a hug and tell her that I understand that she just can't believe her precious grandbaby is dead and at the hands of her daughter.
I really think that her heart will not allow her to believe Caylee is gone for good and she's just grasping at any hope that will prove it.
I can empathize.

 

[icherish]

You can ask her questions like these until the cows come home, but what good will it do? Cindy said on the Today show recently, until someone proves to her 100% that Caylee isn't alive, she will not let go of hope. IT is not hard to see that what sustains her at this point in time. Look at a picture of Cindy when this case started and look at her now. She's much thinner and her face is drawn, the physical manifestations of unbearable anguish. A broken woman.


I mean no offense when I say this. As much as we have all come to care about Caylee, we do not know her in the way her family does. We do not know Casey, either. We didn't watch her come into the world, have not bonded with her, watched her grow and develop; we have not fed her, bathed her, played with her and showered her with love and care. Cindy has this in her heart. No one has the right to tell her how to think, what to believe, how to behave and grieve and all but DEMAND she give up hope, how ever small and dwindling that hope is. She needs to come to these in her own way. WE may not like her way, but we should respect it. JMO

 

[tiredofthis]

My biggest question is this: You, Cindy are a nurse. George was in LE. Therefore you both know about DNA. So how can you deny away what the FBI lab and the Body Farm are saying is proof that Caylee's dead body was in Casey's trunk?

Because they love their granddaughter and don't want to accept the horrible truth. This has to be a never ending nightmare for them.

 

[maswondering2]

I posted this on Anothonys read here but I think its more suited here!



HOW DOES IT FEEL CINDY????

How does it feel to know your daughter is remaining silent while her baby could be crying for her mother or grandma?


How does it feel to know eyes are peering at your family because of your daughter?

How does it feel to know that compassion and sympathy is going out the window every time you open your mouth?

How does it feel to know you are now just as suspious as your daughter?

How does it feel to have people you don't even know care enough to want to bring your grandbaby home no matter what?

How does it feel to now have someone other then your daughter stealing from you? (since the ID thing)

How does it feel to know you have had an advantage many families with missing children do not and yet you treat them horribly?

How does it feel to know that now instead of a college fund for Caylee ...you may need a memorial fund?

How does it feel to lie to the world and feel like your getting away with it?

How does it feel to make a gentle man like Tim Miller be ready to give up?

How does it feel to be a RN ....yet you don't know the smell of death?

How does it feel to bully the media when you can stay away from a camera?

How does it feel to in such big denial ??????

How did feel to celebrate that baby's BDAY With out her.....because of your daughter?

How does it feel to know your daughter was busy curling up in bed with a few "boys" while her "girl" may not have even had a pillow
to lay her head on?

How did it feel to bring LP and TM here under false motives?

How does it feel to know your daughter gave your grandbaby to someone she has no phone # for , no picture of or no one else to say she even is real?

How does it feel to know hundreds of people including some that have truely "lost " a loved one are climbing thru the brush and streets looking for YOUR GRANBABY and you have the nerve to critize them???

HOw does it feel to tell the world to get off their A____ and find YOUR GRANDBABY and you just sit there comforting the person who "lost" her??

How does it feel to know that baby loved you unconditonally yet you sit back claiming your support for the one person who holds the answers to what happened?

How does it feel to see your daughters bond is set higher then the reward to bring YOUR GRANDBABY home???[/QUOTE]

 

[unsaid]

She's on devistation, denial, hope, and I'm sure a whole array of emotions! Many of us have thrown the comforter over our heads for simply losing [yet still alive] b/f's and g/f's and yet sooo many here seem to find humor in the GP's ability [or lack there-of] to cope w/ this more-than-likely tragic event that leads to the death of their grandaughter? Even I try to grasp what little hope there is in this case.

I read more than I reply here. I've read some interesting theories that range from hopeful to "not so much." I always try my dangdest to keep an open mind, and take no gratification ... AND find ZERO humor, in the devistation and confusion this case presents for even us as concerned citizens, NEVERMIND for those who are closely associated with the case and the hand that's being dealt to them, that can easily bread reasonable doubt if you try hard enough to believe it ... IE Cindy.

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Well said! I 100% agree with this perspective on Cindy! It's nice to see some open-minded compassion!