Why don't you compare the Ramsey's to another couple who have lost a child of about the same age.
While Goldman's grief cannot accurately be described, it is obviously deep, it is different in quite a few ways.
1. Goldman never was never a suspect in his own sons murder. He wouldn't automatically be one, as his son is much older than JB, A second victim who has a well documented "intimate partner violence" history is also murdered at same time.
2. Nicole Simpson was primary target and a celebrity at that. He made sure people didn't "forget" his son, as he was murdered at the same hands at the same time. He did a good job too cause Media quit referring to the case as only the murder of Nicole Simpson. I am glad he did, his son should not be forgotten.
3. Because parents are suspects it affects the way they are reached out to by support groups. In many such organizations it is required that the police clear them before they aid anyone but the child and the police. Think about how agonizing that is to a truly innocent parent who has a missing child.It may change the way you behave because you know if you do anything police deem somewhat weird, they will be wasting even more time looking at you than looking for your child. The stress to a truly innocent parent must be terrible.
I know the Ramsey's thought kidnapping at first so comparing two cases where the circumstances are different puts the two subjects on two different planes of thought besides just the initial sameness that binds them, they both have children who were murdered.
Social, economic factors and education taken into account too. An educated person is going to react differently than an uneducated one does. Their personalities have to be taken into account some people do get angrier than others, some people react to situations differently.
I can't really think of ANY case similar to this one to compare it to let alone take into account all those other factors to try and get a fair comparison.
The Ramsey's or even the general public haven't had a formal charge, a judge or jury trial so there is no outrage over injustice that Goldman has.
We pick apart people's behavior based on what we think we, or the scope of our friends and family, might do when we might face a similar situation so I would love to be able to compare the Ramsey's to another case but I would prefer it to be of similar nature.
Also what is considered NORMAL behavior for parents and friends when a child is supposed to be kidnapped, most missing cases are kidnappings.
I also ask then what would be normal behavior when a child is found murdered in close proximity to place of abduction.
I can think of polar opposites in my impression of parents in the media.
1. Mark Klaas- angry, outraged, motivated, initial impression is he is so angry at cops cause his daughter might have been saved if they hadn't wasted time looking at him.
2. Elizabeth Shorts dad -can't even remember this mans first name, Religious- Knew he would be praying not only for his daughters return but for the forgiveness of the persons soul that took her. Calm,family man,at the edge of his ability to cope.
Now these statements might not be true about these two men but it was my initial impression of the two men that I am referring too only. The subconscious judgment I made about them based not only what they said but the way I heard it, saw it, and then processed the information making a "judgment call".
Both had very high media coverage of their daughters cases but both men reacted and gave me different impressions despite the fact that they were both innocent. Innocent people can react differently just like guilty people can react differently.