kittythehare
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Interesting your comment re lack of social skills. I was browsing a reddit channel today, again, for UCIC students and several knew him , one certainly described him in those terms, an awkwardness..others said he was relaxed and helpful.. but its interesting that so many people get this impressionPeople in the fetlife community are aware that individuals try to play the part when their real motive is actually abuse. That's why there is heavy emphasis on consent, etc.
I've thought for awhile that he is a narcissist, sociopath or both. The unfortunate fact is that some people in the fetlife community cannot suss out the respectful partners from the posers and it would not surprise me if someone like Brendt preyed on those people - selling himself as some great catch and they ended up with a different basket of goods if they actually bought his s***.
I see zero respect for his partners - from the public flaunting of his open marriage on dating apps to the information contained in his fetlife profile. MOO is that his activities with people he met will probably show a pattern.
Edited to add: what I find most interesting is just how low his EQ is - his dating profiles are terrible for actually winning dates, his fetlife profile is not going to attract many willing partners, and he always just looks and seems creepy. It's like he hasn't even fully figured out how to mimic social cues properly, much less actually act like a normal human.
I did as well.
now I must educate myself on zombies... this is wild..