Gemmie
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To me, 'guys' is just an informal way of speaking. I've called people, women and young girls included, 'guys'. It's usually something like "Hey, guys... let's do XYX or Hey guys, what do you think about XYZ?".The following is just a weird thing that has become a bit of a headscratcher to me ...
It's just me, mulling my own impressions ... so MOO.
Also, thanks for letting me get it off my chest. I'm guessing it's been asked or mulled-about in these threads before. Maybe it's been beat to death and all figured out. LOL. So ...
The "Guys" audio addition sticks in my craw - a headscratcher.
a) Wondering why (LE) withhold that tidbit for 5-years in?
b) Who approaches 2 strange girls on a hike (that they've never met prior) and calls them "guys"? Much less, "Guys, go this way."
c) The use of "Guys, down the hill" is a directional instruction. One would think it's not a first sentence upon a first meeting.
d) Is it interesting that the girls made a choice to film this random dude walking towards them (Why was he interesting enough to film? Why was he interesting enough to wait and watch as he negotiated the tracks slowly? If he was weird or threatening, would they stand there and film? Had they met BG guy at some point beforehand?)
e) The voice recording has been disembodied from the BG walking video. We actually don't know when "Guys down the hill" was uttered during audio/video capture.
d) Add to this that we're told one of the girls can be heard later in same video to say "Gun", along additional walking sounds.
The whole line "Guys, down the hill" seems an odd first sentence to speak to 2 young girls who are strangers. Would you say "Guys, down the hill" to 2 young girls, strangers to you, that you just came upon? Or would you say it to kids who expected you, and waited for your direction?
Probably overthinking this. Still, it BUGs me.
Again ... 5 years of keeping "Guys" from the public. Maybe someday we'll understand why. Clearly quite a bit we don't yet understand.
So since I've used it many, many times over the decades myself, when speaking to females of all ages (and males and mixed company), I don't find it odd at all. I'm thinking you've never done this so it feels odd to you.
ETA - And yes, I'd call young girls I didn't know 'guys'. Like... "Knock it off, guys", if they were doing something mean.
ETA 2 - I would NEVER consider calling women or young girls 'gals'. It's just always been 'guys' for me. Gals just seems weird to me. That word would never roll off my tongue. lol
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