I think at some point in time while being a member here we have ALL posted stuff that was perhaps a "no-no" and been reprimanded by MODS and/or other members. Many of us do so (post "no-no" things) with good intentions. Not knowing we're even doing anything wrong. I don't believe any of us post things intentionally that we know we aren't allowed to post.
This has happened to me many, many times at various points in my membership. I'd post stuff that I thought was ok but then told it wasn't. And, at times, I did question things as some of the rules didn't seem to make sense and were, well, confusing, I guess you could say. Anyway, if I ever questioned WHY something wasn't allowed or thought it didn't make sense I'd just PM a MOD and they'd explain to me why a certain site/info wasn't allowed. Eventually I also preferred when a seasoned member would tell me before a MOD got to me because then I could edit my info. Because, some times if it isn't cleared up before a MOD comes around, you may be given a "time-out" from the forum. And that stinks!
I just accept that it is what it is and that that's how they choose to run things here. I can stay and accept or leave. While some of the rules may seem over the top at times, in this day and age I can certainly understand why they feel the need to do things like they do and why they do not want insinuations, rumors about a person or case, etc. originating from here. Not that anyone has done that (that was a really bad run on sentence.....LOL). Just saying.
With that said, please don't take anything that was said to you as a personal attack (and I know that can be hard when it happens to you....I've felt that way before myself). I'm sure that wasn't their intentions. And I realize that after I cool down and think about it. Everyone is just trying to keep things in order here so that they whole lot of us doesn't get "into trouble" or threads shut down due to false info being displayed. That is all. JMO