thats my thought! AND he was a funny guy, the women loved him. I understand the Mormon stuff the wards etc.. Turning 30. BUT, Jodi wasn't "all that", his roommates would never rat him out about bringing a woman home, they were not Mormon! (the roommates) and they rarely saw him.
He did not need Jodi to fill any fantasy, he had a lot of women to choose from.
I think she was a classic stalker, I think he did not feel like he was in physical danger from her. I am confident there was no violence between them.
I feel he was actually inexperienced with women, the frequent dating he did was more in line with what his church wanted and that was "innocent" stuff, hurry, go on a date, doesn't work out, next.. Nothing deep forming unless they connected. He was not sleeping with all of them they all deny ever sleeping with him.
I still lean to one last stalker event and when she came through his bedroom doors she really caught him off guard. But since he did not fathom she came with weapons, he took this as another "pushy" Jodi event where she pushes herself into his space, his life to make it up to him. Maybe telling him she brought the phone, its in her backpack, now that will be deleted and nobody will ever heard the sex recording (if they fought about that)
I am convinced she talked her way into the room, but he was totally taken by surprise.