I feel this is respectful and appropriate to post here because even though I'm not IDI I'm also on the fence and still personally sleuthing. I'll say upfront I find it hard to believe a random intruder committed this crime and lean towards it being the R's or someone they knew but I'm still very open minded. I posted this in the RDI thread and really want feedback to close these gaps:
I've recently become very interested in this case. I spent the summer of 2005 (as well as many other weeks in 2004-05) in boulder and the Ramsey house was on my regular running route and also the route we took to chataqua park from my then boyfriend's (now husband) frat house (sigma nu). Its a very unassuming house from the road and honestly it went by without notice unless I was specifically thinking about it...even though I knew of the case and I was a true crime reader back then this case didn't interest me much til recently. All that said, (tmi maybe
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, I'm posting here because even though I'm not sure who committed this horrendous act I have a hard time believing it was someone outside the family or intimate friends. Like a lot of people the ransom note sticks with me and makes me think it's one of the r's but for the life of me I can't determine who did it.
So finally after reading all the books on this and watching all the documentaries I can find I decided to post.
A. Goodness you guys are good. This is why I love WS because there is such a thorough analysis! Sorry I'm late to this case! But thank you all for keeping this case alive.
B. I don't think br's responses in interviews should be over analyzed. I lost my mom at 10 and got up and went to the park to play the next morning. Children that age are in an in between stage of understanding death (and may not fully grasp it) so b saying he was moving on or whatever he said in that respect doesn't surprise me. That doesn't absolve him definitely but I did want to throw that out there. No offense to anyone's who has drawn conclusions over his statements. I just believe at that age any interview answers have to be carefully considered.
C. After the ransom note the thing that bothers me the most about this case and makes me the most suspicious of the r's is that after discovering that one child had been kidnapped why wouldn't you grab the other child out of bed and keep him close to you for safety if nothing else?
D. If you don't have that reaction (grabbing the other child out of bed to keep them close and safe) wouldn't you be tearing through the house, including a sibling's room, looking for the missing child, thus waking up the sleeping non-kidnapped child in the process? Or at least waking the sleeping child to say did you hear anything, do you know where JB is?
Sorry for the long post, I've spent the summer getting caught up with the details and those are my essential questions I've come up with. Curious to hear your thoughts. Again, I'm not decided as of yet and while I'm not full RDI I'm definitely more sure it wasn't some
random intruder.
Edited for this thread but I'm on the fence and just want feedback to help me get the full picture.