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:what: OMG!!!!!!!!!!! I just had a flashback!!!!!!!!!!!!
About 15 years ago, I had someone that dated me that I saw as casual, and yep, just bided my time with him I guess. Enjoyed the time, but didn't want to take it to the "next level". He then wanted to get closer to me that I wanted. Since I was at the time 42 and single, and wanted to continue that way......and with some experience under my belt to WHENEVER there is a severe imbalance in a relationship, I said I wanted to cut it off due to our differing objectives - and I said.......bye.....let's move on. He wanted to be friends, but my RADAR as a woman went off, and I said no.
The next thing I knew, he was calling ALL OF MY GIRLFRIENDS THAT HE HAD MET! Saying there was something wrong with me that I couldn't do relationships and I was too into the "singles" dating scene, and he was the best thing for me and asked them to help me realize such. Next thing, I received a 9 page letter saying that I had pain in my life, and I should accept him to help me overcome the things that apparently caused this in me from a young age.
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Well, I never responded. He called, I screened them and did not answer. Yep, it may have been not a nice break up.......BUT JEEEEEEEEEEEEEZUS!!!!!!! I now realize just today after seeing the below emails.....that folks sometimes want to just move in when you don't and that could lead to a dangerous dangerous situation.
Anywhoooooooooooo, this email being posted made me remember what happened that I had forgotten years ago. Yep....... cold ***** at the time, but I don't care...........ya need to nip in the bud when folks cross the line during a break up. Calling all my gal friends when he had only met them perhaps once or twice casually...and a letter of that length saying how I was damaged and needed his love to recover.........5 alarm fire in my mind that I had to put out!
(LOL, he talked about me lack of long term relationships....and he was going to my gal friends of 20 years+ to tell them, :floorlaugh
Anyway..........FLASHBACK TODAY!!!!!!!! of something I had forgotten about for years! A lesson to all the young adults perhaps is what may come of this. I don't have kids......but if I did....this would be an opportunity for a sit down, you bet your azzzzzzzzzzzzz!
:what: OMG!!!!!!!!!!! I just had a flashback!!!!!!!!!!!!
About 15 years ago, I had someone that dated me that I saw as casual, and yep, just bided my time with him I guess. Enjoyed the time, but didn't want to take it to the "next level". He then wanted to get closer to me that I wanted. Since I was at the time 42 and single, and wanted to continue that way......and with some experience under my belt to WHENEVER there is a severe imbalance in a relationship, I said I wanted to cut it off due to our differing objectives - and I said.......bye.....let's move on. He wanted to be friends, but my RADAR as a woman went off, and I said no.
The next thing I knew, he was calling ALL OF MY GIRLFRIENDS THAT HE HAD MET! Saying there was something wrong with me that I couldn't do relationships and I was too into the "singles" dating scene, and he was the best thing for me and asked them to help me realize such. Next thing, I received a 9 page letter saying that I had pain in my life, and I should accept him to help me overcome the things that apparently caused this in me from a young age.
:waitasec: :waitasec:
Well, I never responded. He called, I screened them and did not answer. Yep, it may have been not a nice break up.......BUT JEEEEEEEEEEEEEZUS!!!!!!! I now realize just today after seeing the below emails.....that folks sometimes want to just move in when you don't and that could lead to a dangerous dangerous situation.
Anywhoooooooooooo, this email being posted made me remember what happened that I had forgotten years ago. Yep....... cold ***** at the time, but I don't care...........ya need to nip in the bud when folks cross the line during a break up. Calling all my gal friends when he had only met them perhaps once or twice casually...and a letter of that length saying how I was damaged and needed his love to recover.........5 alarm fire in my mind that I had to put out!
(LOL, he talked about me lack of long term relationships....and he was going to my gal friends of 20 years+ to tell them, :floorlaugh
Anyway..........FLASHBACK TODAY!!!!!!!! of something I had forgotten about for years! A lesson to all the young adults perhaps is what may come of this. I don't have kids......but if I did....this would be an opportunity for a sit down, you bet your azzzzzzzzzzzzz!