Yes, that's what decent-minded people would do. If my brother did something like this, I would quietly have him cremated and either keep the ashes inside my own house or toss them somewhere he liked to be. But I would do it all quietly because I would be ashamed of what he did.
But this family appears so disordered by the generations of parental alienation and outright hatred, decency is non-existent for them. They can do whatever they want and everyone else is wrong and the enemy. It's quite frightening. It seems only Jennifer got out of that mess. God bless her. She must be made of some tough, golden stuff.
Every few days it is something new with this nightmare. First the murders, then the news of the chopping injuries, then the child *advertiser censored*, now this insane request. And I don't have a good enough memory to list all the other outrageous things that happened between the day Josh murdered Susan and the day he murdered her sons.
He isn't a martyr, he's a sick murderer and he shouldn't even go to potter's field.
It's even worse.
First it was the murder of Susan. Second, it was the coward refusing to allow the Coxes to see her surviving children. Third, his refusal to allow them to have any of her belongings. Fourth was his and his father's taunting of the Coxes with Susan's belongings by, instead of returning them to the Coxes, threatening to publicize her silly teenage journals. Fifth was accusing them of abusing Susan as a child. Sixth was the coward and his father attempting, with disgusting little smirks, to destroy Susan's reputation, by claiming she wanted a sexual relationship with her mentally ill, stalker father-in-law, and claiming she was a sexually suggestive person who ran off with some other guy. Then came the seventh new nightmare, murdering Susan's little sons. And finally, the eighth fresh hell is the coward, through his surviving family, demanding to be buried next to Susan's children, the same babies he brutally destroyed with an axe and fire.
This family is so outside the bounds of normal decency they do not appear human, at all.
I would like to see JP dropped in the ocean. No stone to mark a grave, I don't want anyone to say his name again. At least with a burial at sea his death will have had some meaning - he'll be fish food which is more than he amounted to in life.
I will never say his name again. Once he killed Charlie and Braden, I refused to use his name. He's "the coward" to me now and always will be.
Fair enough guys. I understand your point of view. I never even considered the trauma of the Cox's viewing Josh's name on his stone.
I would love the hate to end. There is so much tragedy here already.
I hear ya', but the hate came from one end. This is not a case of two families warring. This is a case of a lovely, dignified and patient family being murdered and tormented by one man, and his father, while most of his siblings supported that conduct. The Coxes NEVER expressed hatred toward the coward. The expressed bewilderment, anguish, fear, desperation. Never hate.
That came from one direction. But I'm sending it right back to his dead corpse and the corpse's pseudo-human father. I hate the coward and his father for what they did to the Coxes - destroying Susan and then her boys and torturing the Coxes with new evil every chance they got. Torturing two, sad, scared parents who just wanted to know what happened to their baby and to see her lovely children again and hug them and make sure they were okay. Yeah, I hate him and that hate does not end because he offed himself after "surprising" Susan's children by axing them to death and letting them burn in an inferno he created.
And I hate the actions of some of the coward's surviving family. Much like their brother, they are showing no humanity, no compassion to a family who have lost almost everything because of the actions of their beloved monster.
Hate doesn't end just because the demon who created it is in hell. What he has done will have ramifications that last several lifetimes.