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This was Emilys hair color on January 28th
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Sorry..I wasn't being sarcastic. I believe leaders are responsible for their groups and should be held accountable. Typically if their is a breakdown in a group's performance it is related to a few individuals.I don't mean to be short sighted or close minded. I don't know what you mean by "blame the leader" if I want to. I feel like this DCF official is maybe a scapegoat and indicative of a larger problem, if that is what you mean by blame the leader.
And if it is the same department, then PPs comment wasn't a generalization, which is what I was responding to here that you've quoted. I sure hope someone with great instincts is working Lucas's case. I'd hope they'd have the best on these cases, but everyone has to gain experience somehow. Everyone has their first case.
And I hope all the LE involved in Evan's case followed all procedures and everything even if those procedures need to change. It sounds like only someone familiar with the home, like the owner, would have noticed that thing out of place in Evan's case. Thank God it was a rental. Hopefully they've had the landlord in to Lucas's last known residence.
When my son was 2, he was in a private daycare. I arrived to puck him up and he had a huge goose egg on his head. The sitter said she didn't know how it happened. & Hadn't called ME about it during the day.
I took one look at her 7yr old grandson, running around with a police type black flashlight. I immediately knew what hit him, but why? Once in the car, my daughter told me, Timmy did it. Timmy was the grandson.
My husband went to the home the next morning to inform them that we would not be bringing our children back. He also advised her to stop enabling the 7 yr old, promising it will only get worse.
MOO
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perhaps start with the neighbor that was the last to see Lucas (that we know of)? Was she blonde that day and the day of digging in a flower bed (a different neighbor gave this account)? Was she blonde the day she was seen smoking with another man?
As far as relationships, anything can happen and be "normal", which is no one's business.
Violence is a serious problem when there are kids in the house.
It's hard to understand why an abusive couple decides to bring children into the mix, but it's all too common. If a couple fights violently (bringing an ax handle to hold by your side like EG did), it's very likely the kids are going to get hurt too.
I've had so many friends and relatives who's relationships remind me of Lucas' homelife.
I could care less what the adults do if they don't hurt each other.
I've seen the flying plates too.
jmho
It's due to hit here in Nova Scotia later today. Pleased you are safe
Snipped by me...
Evan has been in the back of my mind every time we say on this thread "I'm sure LE knows more than we do...."
They literally didn't find a dead child who was in the room with them, something a regular dude managed to do later, once they'd declared there was nothing of further interest in that house .
Years ago my now deceased husband was a longhaul trucker. I've showered in more truckstop showers than I can count. You learn which ones are safe to stop at.
Miss that kind of gypsy lifestyle at times
It's usually less than $10 and usually free if you're fueling a truck.
jmo
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Tricia
This was her hair color on Nov 14
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I totally agree with your statement..... Yes, if there was any other "real" person to blame, EG would have already thrown them under the bus (not going down alone).....
My worry is that from the get-go, it was stated there was no evidence of abduction, or even of Lucus walking out......so theoretically, no investigative resources have really been expended to try and locate an alternative perpetrator. KWIM? Tons of effort to try and locate Lucas thankfully....but myself and others have really noticed the lack of extensive evidence collection at the home, towing of vehicles, etc. As you said, if it all points to the house and all points to EG...wouldn't there have been much more CSI presence and evidence being taken out? Even the stealthiest of PD's are typically shown by media traipsing in and out.
So, again, the worry is that they DON'T have the evidence they need:
-or EG would at LEAST still have the endangerment charge for Lucas against her
-a defense attorney might have a case against investigators for focusing just on EG (ie. they pre-concluded it was her.....and never really sought other perps. They have not asked the public to help identify any other vehicles, persons, images on video, etc).
I think this could be a problem. IMO.....thoughts?
II wonder if she had help hiding the body. Think about it. She had a restricted drivers license. Was the restriction only if she had children in the car or was it constant? If it was constant, under all circumstances she needed to have someone over the age of 18 in the car she was driving, then if she took Lucas that day, didn't have another adult with her, got pulled over, car impounded with Lucas in the trunk, she would have been busted big time for this crime! Would she have taken that chance?
To all our WS’ers out there searching for this little man who has captured our hearts, THANK YOU and good luck. We are all praying for you and supporting you today! This group is amazing [emoji171]
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I have friends who have fought, similar to EG and JH, who were codependent upon each other, and did love each other, It would take me a month to explain the dynamics, they're just mind boggling. LE was never called b/c they were pretty rural and/or if in town, folks keep to themselves around here, especially after it happens on a weekly basis. In one friends home, and they were married for years, and stayed married, we'd have to duck things flying through the air most every time that we visited, or, we'd have to try and intervene if they were at one of our homes.
My point, what if JH hadn't returned to TX yet, and they fought. During their fight they throw something, and little L gets hit, or they shove him out of the way and he strikes his head or is shoved harder than they intended, being wrapped up in their own fight. They have to do something or EG will lose her boys, and they'll lose their daughter.
I don't think JH was a regular drug user b/c of working on the oil rigs. From what little I know about working on them, it can be dangerous work and they have random drug testing. That doesn't mean he couldn't drink, which, with with EG having a hot temper, alcohol would likely not be in her best interests either. However, I'm sure that LE has checked to make sure that JH was at work during the week that little L went missing.
One more scenario, EG and a bf, could have been hooking up during JH's work time. Little L walks in, and one of them went off on him. They think he's just hurt and put him to bed with a movie. They shower, and find that it's much worse. L's taken away by bf, so EG doesn't know where he is at, maybe it was a bf who hurt him, so , she is being truthful when she says that she didn't hurt him. A bf is not going to park in front of the house. Maybe a bf used her suv that was pulled up to the shed.
Just some thoughts.
I am laughing WAY too hard at that comment.
RSBM
Mr. Brewer seems like a level-headed fellow and I salute both of you.
Because if that had happened to my 2 y.o., I would have told Ms. Sitter that she's lucky that she couldn't see a Maglight shining each time her grandson opened his mouth: that's how far I'd have wanted to shove it up that bully's alimentary canal!!
:happydance: J/K. Mostly. Mr. B's lesson is the better one and I hope it worked. Scary people out there...