slowpoke
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This is so reminiscent of Nancy Paulikas who went missing in Los Angeles. She was in her 50s with early onset Alzheimer’s disease. At a museum, the husband led Nancy to the women’s restroom on the 2nd floor, then left to go to the men’s restroom on the 1st floor. When he came back up, she was gone, having left the museum building and onto the streets (a store’s surveillance cam caught her on camera). The husband said she had never wandered off before, if I recall correctly. Her remains were found some 10 miles from the museum over two years later, sadly.
Lesson for us all: don’t leave a person with dementia when going to the restroom. It IS a dilemma, however, for the caregiver or spouse if of the opposite sex. Which restroom to enter together? I’ve had a few incidents with my near-blind elderly father trying to guide him to use a public restroom, when he couldn’t see enough to find his way around inside. (He later developed dementia, too, but by then he was in a nursing home
). If the person can navigate and do their toileting themself, I think waiting just outside the door is best. Or use those “family restrooms”, as the ones I have seen are single toilets with a door, separate from the multi-stall large restrooms.
Back to Edmond. I hope, since he has no money and is afflicted with dementia, he is encountering kind strangers who are feeding him and helping him, so he will be located alive.
Lesson for us all: don’t leave a person with dementia when going to the restroom. It IS a dilemma, however, for the caregiver or spouse if of the opposite sex. Which restroom to enter together? I’ve had a few incidents with my near-blind elderly father trying to guide him to use a public restroom, when he couldn’t see enough to find his way around inside. (He later developed dementia, too, but by then he was in a nursing home
Back to Edmond. I hope, since he has no money and is afflicted with dementia, he is encountering kind strangers who are feeding him and helping him, so he will be located alive.