Lilibet
Southern Oregon
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I've read them. Here's the thing...CM/Wes is stating his beliefs. Strong beliefs. Now, just because WE don't agree, doesn't mean those are not his feelings. He strongly feels what he feels, unless he is the culprit and in that case he is deflecting.
I cannot forget the case (here) of Taylor Wright. Her ex-husband was a VI and nearly strung up because he was simply telling the truth about the victim in his own words/opinion. Turns out...he had NOTHING to do with her murder. But oh, how he 'sounded' guilty!
I wasn’t on the Taylor Wright thread you mentioned, but I’ve been on other threads where the VI SO was treated like a suspect, even though they were simply expressing their opinion. But was Taylor Wright’s ex rude and condescending to members and mods? That’s the issue with the VI here IMO. One can express strong opinions and beliefs without resorting to angry comments directed at others in language that can’t be printed. As Tricia often says, “Words have power” and they can do lasting harm, either to another's reputation or ones own. In this case, it’s both.
JMO
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