mpnola
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I think it is important too. When I used to go out in my single days, the only reason I or a friend would not want to leave a party/bar ect. when our ride/friends did was when we had a nice guy/romantic interest still there at the party. If she was attracted to the guy and he seemed nice/safe she might have decided to stay with him. I do not feel like 2 guys are involved. I think it was one guy who took things farther than Chelsea wanted to go and she was killed in the act. I think she was killed while parked in the car and her body and clothes dumped after. One guy can keep quiet, 2 not as easily.
I have to say I was a single go-out girl for a long time!!!! I used to want to stay out ALL the time when others were ready to go. The reason? Simple. I was having fun! I got all dressed. I wasn't tired. I wanted to drink more. I wanted to have as much fun as my night would take. I had several "early night" friends and it would drive me nuts! (just as I would drive them nuts by wanting to stay). The party/ bar/ people/ place would just be getting good and fun and they would be "tired" and ready to go. A guy would definitely sweeten that deal, but I stayed out most of the time without a love interest in mind. And I know people frown on it, but single girls stay out by themselves all the time! My friend used to live 30 minutes from me. We never left in the same car because we lived in opposite directions. It makes no difference if I take a cab WHEN she leaves or after she leaves. And you usually know enough people on a general basis to feel comfortable having people to talk and hang with. It isn't nearly as creepy as people perceive it. And it is much more common than people expect. I actually joined Websleuths a few years ago (for a case of a teacher who had been out before she disappeared) because I realized that people that are not single and do not go out a lot do not at all realize what is "normal" for those that do and I had to explain.
BTW- Colette, I am definitely not addressing that at you! LOL! I just jumped off your post and then kept on going!