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IRT EG apparently standing by FG, and the frustration of that for some. I think it is easy to lose sight that she too is a victim. One who thankfully still has her life, but nevertheless is still a victim. FG has spent years grooming and manipulating her, and it will likely take her months or even years to separate his BS from reality. One day, not on our timeline, she will make that leap from victim to survivor, and she too will need a soft place to land.
She did not create FG, I highly doubt she knowingly protected this version of him. Likely, everything she knows and loves of him has been carefully orchestrated to create a realism that doesn't exist, and that is the only version she has to hold on to right now, IMO. That fantasy was her entire life. She is not unscathed, just still breathing. Give time time.
Dani's thread is my landing page on WS, so I very much get that she should be reunited with her family posthaste. I want that too. I try hard never to dim somebody else's lightbulb in order to make another one's shine. Dani is shining brightly. I believe not a day goes by that her light hasn't been asking us to focus. I pray for everyone involved. May they get peace and justice.
IRT EG apparently standing by FG, and the frustration of that for some. I think it is easy to lose sight that she too is a victim. One who thankfully still has her life, but nevertheless is still a victim. FG has spent years grooming and manipulating her, and it will likely take her months or even years to separate his BS from reality. One day, not on our timeline, she will make that leap from victim to survivor, and she too will need a soft place to land.
She did not create FG, I highly doubt she knowingly protected this version of him. Likely, everything she knows and loves of him has been carefully orchestrated to create a realism that doesn't exist, and that is the only version she has to hold on to right now, IMO. That fantasy was her entire life. She is not unscathed, just still breathing. Give time time.
Dani's thread is my landing page on WS, so I very much get that she should be reunited with her family posthaste. I want that too. I try hard never to dim somebody else's lightbulb in order to make another one's shine. Dani is shining brightly. I believe not a day goes by that her light hasn't been asking us to focus. I pray for everyone involved. May they get peace and justice.