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bY the way, if anyone here is feeling hopeless, please reach out to someone. A friend, family, a help line, a doctor, even one of us. Please don't pass your pain to your loved ones through suicide. Get help.
This whole case has made me upset and the outcome has made me irrationally angry. I mean, I understood that there wasn't going to be a good outcome here; but yet another suicide has me very unhappy. Would Holly have done it in exactly this manner if she had known that her actions would "go viral" and expose her BF and family to all manner of outside scrutiny?
I've been suicidal myself. To the point where I attempted. So I understand that dark place. I tried to do it in a way that was least upsetting to my family. There's no way of getting into the heads of other suicidal people, obviously. Maybe some of them aren't thinking of anyone but themselves. Maybe some are downright vengeful.
She probably wasn't thinking about any of those things. Unfortunately it turned into that. My heart aches for her kids, family and for AR. There have been so many horrible comments made to him. I hope that you and others that may read this, have gotten the help you need.
Awe damn. This is about an hour away from me. RIP sweet Holly.
Thank you for pointing that out. Holly's boyfriend Allen is conducting himself with class and dignity. From the beginning of his ordeal 3 days ago, he has been transparent and forthcoming while pleading for Holly's return. Yet, there have been those who took his words and actions and used them against him. Suspicious-minded people posting one innuendo after another, disparaging him from the beginning, saying things about him they would never say to his face. I wonder how those people feel about themselves now.
Agreed. Some people here will take anything and immediately put blame on the spouse, when that person is obviosuly under considerable stress and overwhelming conclusions that the mind is wandering towards. Any interview is analyzed over and over, considering previous cases, eye twitches, etc. In what I've read here, and on past cases, the analyzations of a spouse or family are so rough that I fear anybody here who has not gone through this ignores common sense and the fragility of the spouse/family at the current time of the event.Thank you for pointing that out. Holly's boyfriend Allen is conducting himself with class and dignity. From the beginning of his ordeal 3 days ago, he has been transparent and forthcoming while pleading for Holly's return. Yet, there have been those who took his words and actions and used them against him. Suspicious-minded people posting one innuendo after another, disparaging him from the beginning, saying things about him they would never say to his face. I wonder how those people feel about themselves now.
This case really tugs at me. A good friend of mine just lost her daughter to suicide she was only 26 and reminds me of Holly. Both have beautiful smiles. No one new she was depressed, she had a career a great family. She had just got home from a dinner with friends. Had weekend plans, there was ZERO signs she was suicidal. She also took a gun and shot herself. Her family would have never believed suicide if there was not a note left. I pray for all who are hurting.