BirdieBoo
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I wonder where these teens parents were...It sounds like it was a long involved, planned out process. The article also made it sound as if it were the teens' parents that decided to bury the fetus in the back yard.
BirdieBoo said:I wonder where these teens parents were...It sounds like it was a long involved, planned out process. The article also made it sound as if it were the teens' parents that decided to bury the fetus in the back yard.
I know but I was referring to this part:Timex said:Actually, it said the parents didnt know about the pregnancy until the abortion was carried out.
Timex said:well, I see your point, but then..it is the womans right to choose. Isnt like the male made the decision to do this alone. She decided she didnt want this child. Im not sure I see any difference in how the killing is done. What if she had taken morning after pills etc to cause a miscarraige? Not much difference..baby dies either way.
Fran Bancroft said:God bless you for your witness Anngelique! My firstborn was 9 weeks early and a 4 lb baby that dropped to 3 lbs. I remember crying when I looked at him. He was crying tears, and made a raspy little noise when he was stuck with a needle; he calmed down when he heard my voice...I cried because I knew that women were daily aborting babies of his "gestational" age and older and calling them "tissue". How horrific!
For our society to defend a doctors premeditated murder of an infant and to turn around and jail a teen who has been taught this is okay for doing the same thing, this is a very twisted society we live in. God bless this girl, may HE give her wisdom, insight, and peace when it hits her what she's done. May society wake up and mourn the great loss to this country and be sorry for it.
Anngelique said:I am so relieved to hear that Timex. I really mistook some of your comments and I was really disgusted by them. But you are absolutely correct in saying be careful what you ask for.
That baby had to have felt pain if they were hitting it enough that it died. We would be outraged if a person did that to a dog or cat, or any animal for that matter. But it is OK to so many people to kill a baby like that.
I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks. I hemmoraged and was rushed to the ER. My DR happened to be a dear family friend. In the mess of blood, the baby came out. The DR cleaned the baby up for me and let me hold him. He was so tiny, in fact only a couple inches long. But you know what? He had all of his human features already. He had his nose, mouth, finger, toes, ears, eyes, arms, legs, etc. He was so little and so beautiful. So when someone tells me a baby is not a baby this early and that they don't feel pain, I simply don't believe it. When a person gets to hold their precious infant at such an early age, I believe they would change their tune as well.
Nice logical post based on the reality that we live in today. Particularly the inner city that many will never have the chance to see but love to judge. My pal the social worker has pregnant 10 and 11 year olds all the time, life in the projects, it's not just some made for tv movie about kids gone wrong...Candlelight said:I have quite a different take on this than most of you, who have focused on " the criminality" of the death of a 6 month ( 24 week) fetus. I am a health care professional and I care about the girl who was desperate enough to allow herself to be beaten 10-11 times hard with a baseball bat.
Consider being pregnant enough for a 16 year old boy to see where to hit, consider standing or kneeling every other day for 3 weeks ( 10- 11 days) and being hit hard with a baseball bat. For those who have borne children, surely you remember how tender that stretched skin, muscle, and ligaments were. An OB exam was starting to be uncomfortable at this stage, right?
This girl allowed herself to be beaten repeatedly. I might can see one time, if she didn't know what it felt like to be beaten.. but 10 times? 11 times?
We have no way to know when the fetus succumbed during the 2 week period, as a retained dead fetus is not uncommon after trauma. I have not read the pathology report. ( Autopsy is not the right word for a 24 week fetal' tissue examination- pathology report is.)
Even if she expelled the fetus and placenta right after the last beating, which caused the death of the fetus, this girl suffered.
She faced many medical/ surgical complications: Placenta Previa. Abruptio Placentae. Laceration or rupture of the uterus, liver, spleen or laceration to the peritoneum, causing peritonitis. Overwhelming sepsis.
Rupture of the abdominal aorta secondary to blunt force trauma. Spinal damage due to the force of the blows. Pelvic fracture. Appendiceal rupture. Horrible damage to the kidneys, ureters, or bladder. She could have died at any time during or after a beating with a baseball bat.
What would lead a child to resort to this? Ignorance, fear, poverty, denial up to a point, lack of parental support,...desperation ??
For those who might not have a good idea of how well a fetus is protected inside the amniotic- filled uterus, it takes a great deal of blunt force trauma to cause fetal demise in the absence of other factors. Women have been throwing themselves down stairs, off cliffs, out of wagons, off horses, off the roof, etc in the misguided attempt to miscarry for centuries. It usually won't happen if the woman is anatomically normal and the embryo is implanted intra-uterine. It is easier to break bones than to induce a self-abortion past 2 weeks gestation.
I have seen 2 women with severe trauma from a car accident sufficient enough that they were in a chronic vegetative state and with multiple fractures all over their bodies give birth to live babies while on life support.
I am sorry that an unwanted fetus was aborted without benefit of anesthesia or humane, sterile medical conditions for the teenaged girl. She went through hell, physically and most likely emotionally if she is mentally competent for her age. She was already born, fully able to feel all stages of pain.
This is not a story about how two little monsters played a game and a fetus died. This is a cautionary true event about desperation and lack of adult supervision and lack of education about teenage pregnancy.
I thought all kids had to take sex ed now. If so, I would think that girls are taught that if their period is late past a week, they should take a pregnancy test or go to the health department for a free test.
Birth control is vastly preferable to what happened here. Abortion is legal and gives a woman the right legally to choose whether she wants to be pregnant or not, up to 24 weeks.
Something huge failed in this case. Certainly her custodial parent failed. How could a parent not know that their daughter was being beaten severely every other day for 3 weeks?
How could they not see an advancing pregnancy? How could they bury a fetus in the back yard and not seek medical help for their beaten daughter?
The criminality exists in the actions of the boyfriend, the parents, and any other person who might have had knowledge of this desperate act and did not stop the boy from beating her.
All I can say at this point is that the girl needs psychiatirc help and possibly removal to a foster home. She has been abused and neglected beyond most peoples' comprehension, partly of her own action and inaction, which is abnormal in itself.