SeriouslySearching
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Since when does one mentioning taking a child to potty before bed equate to unconditional love?! I am guessing that Rj was possibly still wearing pullup pants and Haleigh is old enough to go by herself, imo. She is still young enough to have accidents especially with Turners, imo. Just because we haven't heard Misty mention the children going to the potty doesn't mean anything, imo.You have described an act of unconditional love that bonds families together and establishes a happy and secure place for children to develop at their own pace without having their feelings exploited. The parent takes on the responsibility for their child's well-being. This act sends a clear message of love without any need for words, which possess the power to heal or harm. Misty said HaLeigh peed her blanket. Is Misty intentionally hiding her response to HaLeigh peeing the bed or is she open for discussion? Furthermore, if Misty removed a blanket from the bedroom window like she said she did, this is the 3rd red flag I have detected in the quality of care Misty provided to these precious children.
Misty didn't say she wet on it that night. She only said it smelled like urine. She didn't mention it was wet either. For what it is worth...Rj could have peed on it at some point. In no way is the blanket on the window a red flag, imo, she DID care enough to wash it because of the dust before laying it on anyone or the bed. Good move on her part and shows she was taking adequate care of the children, imo. She could have put a filthy blanket on one and a pissy blanket on the other, but she chose not to do that, imo.